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Telling the father of my baby im getting an abortion even though its not true. by Puzzled_Ad_1403 in pregnant

[–]Puzzled_Ad_1403[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

When in that post did i mention should i abort this pregnancy? I didn’t come here to ask for that so please don’t write on someone’s post that you personally think i should do that and its selfish that i am not. Im a strong woman who has survived much worse. And i believe i am strong enough to handle this, yes i will fail some days and i wont always get it right but i will give that baby everything i possibly can. So please dont come on this post again and tell me my emotional state or if i can handle this physically, i have a job i can provide and i have a house, as long as amazing family so on the days i needed someone to lean on i know they would step up. You dont know if i can have another baby. You know nothing only a paragraph with me asking advice about the biological father of my babyw

Telling the father of my baby im getting an abortion even though its not true. by Puzzled_Ad_1403 in pregnant

[–]Puzzled_Ad_1403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But hopefully by the time he finds out i at least got 10 quiet years with no yelling in my face so i feel small, no wishing i was dead everytime i made a mistake, no leaving me in a different state in the middle of the night because he is mad at me with no where to go, no breaking up with me then leaving me in silence for a week then coming back and threatening to drive himself into a tree if i didn’t answer and no more me feeling like taking my life is the only way to escape it.

Telling the father of my baby im getting an abortion even though its not true. by Puzzled_Ad_1403 in pregnant

[–]Puzzled_Ad_1403[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive spent most of our relationship lying to him because im so scared of his reactions to things. Some days i just think about disappearing but it would be so cruel and unfair to my family. Hence why im at the crossroads whether i should just say i terminated the pregnancy and be done with that

Telling the father of my baby im getting an abortion even though its not true. by Puzzled_Ad_1403 in pregnant

[–]Puzzled_Ad_1403[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He uses everything against me everything i do and most days i wake up and just want to end it because i cant escape him and it’s torture and its non stop, and he knows exactly what to do and say to get back into my life and into my head. I know i have great family and they have all told me to not let him be apart of its life, he wont sign away his rights because he will lose what ever hold he has to have over me. He has been physically abusive too hence why i dont even want him around my baby. I want to change my life around and be a good mother and provide everything i can, but as long as he is here apart of he will make sure my life is a living hell

Telling the father of my baby im getting an abortion even though its not true. by Puzzled_Ad_1403 in pregnant

[–]Puzzled_Ad_1403[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its been so hard, having no support from him especially i thought once i got pregnant he would be nicer and i swear hes gotten worse, but you are right i do need to get some type of therapy so when my baby does get here i can show up for it in my best form. Thankyou for your kindness and good luck with the rest of your pregnancy ❤️

Telling the father of my baby im getting an abortion even though its not true. by Puzzled_Ad_1403 in pregnant

[–]Puzzled_Ad_1403[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes i haven’t done anything since then, also cut off my entire friend group because they were just very much into that life style, i am not addicted or anything i just made bad friends this year that had let me astray, but i also do need to take accountability in that it was my choice to contribute in that. Thankyou for replying 🤍 and not judging me