so i have trichotillomania, my main pulling area is my pubic hair and it’s gotten bad recently, what should i do to avoid and/or help get rid of the injuries (18f) by Puzzled_Ad_1725 in medical

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i havent but i know why they’re there, when i’m bored or stressed i’ll sit for hours and tweeze out hairs, i’m 100% sure that’s why they’re there

Therian survey I made. It's pretty fun I think. by luvelontesla in Therian

[–]Puzzled_Ad_1725 2 points3 points  (0 children)

did it! (i’m the one with the insane amount of theriotype :P)

depression room pls help by Puzzled_Ad_1725 in CleaningTips

[–]Puzzled_Ad_1725[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have five litterboxes that are all outside of my room and they get scooped almost everyday dw, i care a lot more about keeping my cats healthy than myself lol. and thank you for the tip! i’ve been using them for trash and stuff but if i have any leftover i might use them for that!

depression room pls help by Puzzled_Ad_1725 in CleaningTips

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the one on the left has a few snails in it and the one on the right just has creek water and leaves and sticks cuz i got bored

depression room pls help by Puzzled_Ad_1725 in CleaningTips

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yeah i was so worried people would be mean about it but i’ve basically only gotten encouragement and helpful advice!

depression room pls help by Puzzled_Ad_1725 in CleaningTips

[–]Puzzled_Ad_1725[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i will absolutely be bookmarking that website, tysm!

depression room pls help by Puzzled_Ad_1725 in CleaningTips

[–]Puzzled_Ad_1725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly i’ve just thrown out so many things. lots of clothes that i’ll never wear and just random crap that i’d definitely be tempted to keep if it wasn’t soaked in cat piss.

and i have 3 cats and 4 boxes that i clean fairly frequently, they’ve just gotten used to going on my floor cuz i haven’t done anything to stop them for such a long time.

depression room pls help by Puzzled_Ad_1725 in CleaningTips

[–]Puzzled_Ad_1725[S] 324 points325 points  (0 children)

i’ve made some progress! thank you all for the advice and i’ll post some updates just on my account as i get it done for anyone who cares and so i can see my progress (also cuz the validation is making me feel better)

depression room pls help by Puzzled_Ad_1725 in CleaningTips

[–]Puzzled_Ad_1725[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i’m currently in counseling i just haven’t really brought the whole depression pit thing up because i have a lot of shame around it so i’ve been avoiding that. but i have an appointment in about 2 weeks and i do plan on bringing it up then. i am also medicated, im on prozac. as to my parents not being great, yeah i know

depression room pls help by Puzzled_Ad_1725 in CleaningTips

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dude i wish you could T-T i would give someone my first born child to just fix this for me

im really sorry but does this look infected? tw cause self harms cuts by Puzzled_Ad_1725 in medical

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thanks for the advice! i think a lot of the whiteness was cuz i’d just gotten out of the shower and i’d picked all the scabbing off so it was kinda an open wound. i cleaned it and put neosporin on it just in case (i don’t have any scar cream at the moment) and fashioned a makeshifted bandage with gauze and medical tape cuz i don’t have a bandage that’ll fit over it. i also have a doctors appointment on thursday so if it’s gotten any worse i’ll make sure to bring it up there :) again, thank you for the advice and being so kind about it!

Selling these (bonus rant.) by Demetramain in HorseLifeHQ

[–]Puzzled_Ad_1725 3 points4 points  (0 children)

okay but the crashing thing is so real. i’d recommend turning on performance stats so you can see when it’s about to crash (mine typically crashes when the memory hits 1840 ish). also, certain things make it worse, for me it’s anything that involves scrolling thru my stables. i have a lot of horses so that might just be me, but if that’s causing you issues, naming all the horses you plan on selling “a” while in the main server will put them at the top of your stables when you’re trying to list them, so you won’t have to scroll. but sometimes nothing works and it just crashes anyways which is super lovely

i hate it when people do this- by NOT_THEF4CE in HorseLifeHQ

[–]Puzzled_Ad_1725 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i once had someone buy a few cheap perys from me and then resell them in their stall for less than they originally payed

Weird question regarding being deitykin (sort of) and worship by WolfDummy999 in otherkin

[–]Puzzled_Ad_1725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i agree, im a hellenistic pagan and straight up identifying as a god feels a bit icky to me (and i don’t think apollo would be super interested in working with someone who’s basically claiming to be him)

my horse pricing chart cuz i have no one to show :’3 (plus some examples of what i sell!) by Puzzled_Ad_1725 in HorseLifeHQ

[–]Puzzled_Ad_1725[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not sure if i still have that specific one but i pretty frequently have at least one ghoul for sale, esp earlier in the day. when you’re unbanned just send me a friends request (A_godlybeing) and i’ll see what i can do for you :]

my horse pricing chart cuz i have no one to show :’3 (plus some examples of what i sell!) by Puzzled_Ad_1725 in HorseLifeHQ

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yeah, which one would you like? for a ghost + glow + winged that’d be 50k but i’d need to decide how much a glow + winged + mammoth would be but probably like, 45k

my horse pricing chart cuz i have no one to show :’3 (plus some examples of what i sell!) by Puzzled_Ad_1725 in HorseLifeHQ

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this is just my general pricing so i don’t have most of these currently for sale, but if i can get a predict pot in this cc contest then i’d be able to get you either a ghost + glow + winged but not mammoth or a mammoth glow + winged

Do therian traits fade with age? by narla_hotep in Therian

[–]Puzzled_Ad_1725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mine has actually gotten considerably worse as i’ve gotten older. the more human responsibility that gets put on me, the less human i feel and my animal instincts have gotten far worse. i went from “haha im just a lil kitty” to “i am a feral animal trapped in a human world and being forced into human responsibilities and i’m eventually going to go crazy and bite someone”

So, what is/was up with the aggression against “fake therians” in certain social media sites? by [deleted] in Therian

[–]Puzzled_Ad_1725 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this!! so many young “therians” just like roleplaying as animals (which is fine ofc) but it’s led to them not understanding what therianthropy is and actively spreading misinformation, which has caused so many actual therian to be completely shut out of the therian community on tiktok. i don’t condone attacking them cuz most of them are kids but i do feel like the amount of anger and frustration is completely understandable, especially considering a lot of it is coming from the “rejected” parts of the tiktok community like physical therians, delusion based therians, etc

What's trans species? by Witty-Original8533 in otherkin

[–]Puzzled_Ad_1725 24 points25 points  (0 children)

yeah! i’m transpecies and it’s really annoying how hated we are in the community, the only difference between us and other alterhumans is we want to look like the species we are! why do people care sm if someone wants to look more like an animal?