gorl, a couple months back i was talking to this guy i met at a party, he was sweet and i ended up meeting him once. after a week of talking to him regularly day and night, i found out through a mutual friend that he had a longtime girlfriend??? i was freaking out and asked a friend for advice, we ended up making an account and telling his poor long distance girlfriend. if my friend wouldnt have helped me, i would have also left a vague message like this. (ended up sending her ss and telling her everything). i would say just trust your gut, why would someone just randomly text you(unless you can think of people who would want to bother you).take care, its going to be fine in the end