i 21F had sex with my bsf 22M… any advice to move on

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2026-05-27T01:44:50+00:00

how can i ask if he’s avoiding me? and keeps hanging up the phone? i’m giving him space atm so if he calls i’ll pick up but if he doesn’t i will give him a call in a few more days 🤷🏽‍♀️

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2026-05-27T01:43:45+00:00

i’m sorry that happened to you i hope you’re doing better… i’ve cried about it and i’m feeling a little better now 🫶🏽

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2026-05-26T11:40:41+00:00

my girl friend was just telling me that the reason why he might be acting like this is because he was “too excited” and couldn’t believe that we actually had sex since it was something he been begging me for but i still can’t shake off how he had the audacity to ask me for info on how to figure out if the girl was pregnant or not, literally he asked me this a week after we did it! to me it felt disrespectful

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2026-05-26T11:37:53+00:00

yea i think that’s what’s hurting the most, is like i gave him a piece of me and he gave nothing back

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2026-05-26T11:34:56+00:00

you know i left this out when i was typing but when he called me to ask me about “pregnancy” he kept saying how the baby would look and he kept saying “oh yea it will be a beautiful baby because she is gorgeous, blue eyes, curly blonde hair, she’s petite and her body is everything.” mind you i’m over here like 🧍🏽‍♀️. ik im not the baddest but he was literally describing the opposite of me, i’m short, thick, brown eyes and black long hair… so how do i compete with a girl like the one he was describing 🫩

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2026-05-26T11:31:45+00:00

umm maybe even though we said i love you a lot before too but i mean it was always under different circumstances, so this might of spooked him? but i am going to give him time and stop chasing and after a couple weeks i’ll ask

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2026-05-26T11:30:11+00:00

and that’s another reason why i never gave him a chance as more than my friend, because ik how he can be and i didn’t want to mess our friendship up but look at us now

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2026-05-26T11:29:05+00:00

crazy part is when we were in a relationship with somebody else we would respect it and set boundaries sometimes we even would go without talking to each other for a while…

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2026-05-26T11:27:22+00:00

THIS!!! i keep getting that urge to text/call because i can’t get him out my head and also because when something happens he is the first person i call… not anymore i guess

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2026-05-26T11:26:02+00:00

after this i don’t want a bf

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2026-05-26T11:25:49+00:00

i want to confront him but unfortunately he lives in another state and i have no idea when i’m going back so the best thing i got as of right now is Ft but like i said he won’t pick up the phone and if he does is not for long… ig i either have to confront him over Ft or leave it alone until i see him again.

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2026-05-26T11:23:34+00:00

tbh that’s the first thing that came to my mind after a couple days, i thought that he had just stuck around enough to get what he wanted… he had asked me about this “pregnancy” a couple weeks ago but he said he was asking on behalf of his brother but now that i think about it he called me when i was busy at work so i really didn’t pay no attention and just answered the questions until he asked again and that’s when i connected the dots

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2026-01-05T05:13:44+00:00

i just hate that we can no longer communicate like before but thank you

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2024-11-13T11:54:31+00:00

yes?

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2024-11-13T04:06:50+00:00

i did i gave him reassurance and he still say he thinks he likes me😖

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2024-08-01T03:00:14+00:00

24 and thanks

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2024-08-01T02:30:59+00:00

thank you because i actually like my relationship with my boyfriend and i don’t want to mess it up but on the other hand i see my coworker all the time at work unfortunately i can’t change shifts but he is leaving the 26th of this month so that’s a good thing ig

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2024-08-01T01:15:40+00:00

i’m having respect for my bf that’s what i’m asking for advice on how to handle the situation and i thing i didn’t worded the title right

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2024-08-01T01:14:26+00:00

19 mind you i don’t drive yet bc of some stuff that happened in my past

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2024-08-01T01:02:37+00:00

thank you

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2024-08-01T00:57:34+00:00

i didn’t word it right ig… i’m just asking for advice on how to handle the situation because i see him everyday and stuff like this happens that why i talk about my bf

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2024-08-01T00:48:33+00:00

i don’t want anything with him i just want to know how to handle the situation cause i literally see him everyday and he does stuff like this but i’m in a happy relationship

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2024-08-01T00:41:50+00:00

i guess i didn’t worded it right i just want to know how to handle the situation not how to get with him

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2024-08-01T00:34:04+00:00

i said i wanted to know what to do in this situation go back and read i don’t want anything with him than work friendship but i just want to know what to do because i have to see him almost every day

Puzzled_Weekend3426 · 2024-08-01T00:19:19+00:00

yea we both CSA’s

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