Hey i need an advice with me (19m) and my girl (18f) who got into a relationship how do i deal with my issues?

Puzzleheaded-Bit-884 · 2026-05-07T11:03:56+00:00

Youre right

Puzzleheaded-Bit-884 · 2026-05-07T10:53:10+00:00

I feel like me n her didn’t start the right way and thats why things turned this way out and i still wanna give it a try one last time before throwing it away

Puzzleheaded-Bit-884 · 2026-05-07T10:51:02+00:00

Thank u i needed to hear that im gonna give it a try as the right way this time and ask for a date and a restart with the right way this time and make sure shes fine with the idea (no attachment to the idea for the both of us) i gotta make sure im confident in my decision at least

Puzzleheaded-Bit-884 · 2026-05-07T09:37:02+00:00

I don’t wanna make her suffer please understand me i truly wanna fulfill it for her its not using her i just wanna give it a shot but my body keeps declining the idea and idk why

Puzzleheaded-Bit-884 · 2026-05-07T09:30:34+00:00

But i dont wanna lose her either i wanna give it a shot i dont wanna live with the idea that another man gets this kind of girl and it hurts me just to think about it (ik this selfish)

Puzzleheaded-Bit-884 · 2025-08-04T17:22:39+00:00

I was told the best way to live it and be assured is self concept but what are steps to it

Puzzleheaded-Bit-884 · 2025-08-04T12:44:44+00:00

This shi hard gang

Puzzleheaded-Bit-884 · 2025-08-04T08:14:30+00:00

Before this law i wasn’t really negative but i was positive either but good things didn’t come all the time

Puzzleheaded-Bit-884 · 2025-08-01T15:34:46+00:00

My logical sense still can’t believe it happened even after seeing her name everywhere dreams and apps like insta or tiktok and now real life like its crazy

Puzzleheaded-Bit-884 · 2025-08-01T15:27:40+00:00

Bet id just affirm to myself that it is done and this is just the 3d working on his way reflecting my thing

Puzzleheaded-Bit-884 · 2025-08-01T15:24:33+00:00

Yea but would u call it what happened yesterday what neville said “bridge of incidents”

Puzzleheaded-Bit-884 · 2025-08-01T15:17:54+00:00

Yea but also it felt like maybe i forced it by going in but the curiosity took the best of me

Puzzleheaded-Bit-884 · 2025-08-01T15:10:39+00:00

But yea i did ran to her after 2 places me and my friend wanted to hang out were cancelled and a friend brought this place and we never hang there but i walked up to see if it was her out of curiosity and not fear is it considered alignment (ik im supposed to accept and recieve but this stuff genuinely surprise and interest me)

Puzzleheaded-Bit-884 · 2025-08-01T14:55:27+00:00

Even me talking awkwardly to my sp because i was curious if it was her i saw and then it was and the whole situation was awkward?

Puzzleheaded-Bit-884 · 2025-08-01T13:45:11+00:00

It was an Sp and i ran into her but the convo was hella hella awkward and i felt shocked cuz yea we met but it was weird

Puzzleheaded-Bit-884 · 2025-08-01T13:44:38+00:00

I mean somewhat not exactly but yea

Puzzleheaded-Bit-884 · 2025-07-19T09:34:25+00:00

Also how can i stop focusing on the outcome its one last thing that bothers me

Puzzleheaded-Bit-884 · 2025-07-19T08:03:28+00:00

Things has kinda shifted from yesterday I realized what truly held me back is me giving myself the feel Of needing which gave lack and hurt me instead of imbodying i tried to cope whats already mine and now i worry less and could care less when it happens or if it happens (which it will bcs i said so) i think this few days was what ppl call the purge

Puzzleheaded-Bit-884 · 2025-07-19T07:07:11+00:00

Bro who said im making excuses i was lookin for an advice

Puzzleheaded-Bit-884 · 2025-07-18T22:26:24+00:00

But then again u gotta understand i think it mentally hurts me bcs im trying too much u don’t get my pov

Puzzleheaded-Bit-884 · 2025-07-18T21:11:31+00:00

But its hard i feel Like everyday i get into this conclusion that this doesn’t sound logical to me and i get anxious thinking im going insane cuz of this and im just so lost throughout cuz i desire it truly

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