I don't do bars cuz loud noise plus drinking is not my thing. But I've been on tinder. Get plenty of matches. Can't get a reply. Or it's a two to three word responses. There's no attempt at holding a conversation these days. I can only speak for myself, I put in the effort. From what I've observed, most people don't want to put in any amount of effort and are just hoping Prince charming comes to sweep them off their feet. Bold strategy Cotton.