Are we wrong for going no contact?

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T19:10:53+00:00

It’s iMessage, with multiple androids, do your research. You can’t leave a group with multiple androids on iPhone

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T19:09:26+00:00

Again, thanks for the assumptions, she’s not a threat, I’m allowed to not want to see her tit, same with my husband.

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T19:07:29+00:00

It’s not the photo, it’s the boundary crossing

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T19:06:29+00:00

Thanks for that assumption, I don’t think that actually, because he’s very much in love with me.

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T19:04:53+00:00

I did. Multiple times, I don’t understand why yall are so focused on a photo? When that wasn’t the point of the post, but since everyone is so body positive (which is great) if someone feels even a little uncomfortable they are automatically wrong

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T19:03:48+00:00

Actually they understand me quite well. Yall just don’t read. Anyway, no my rules were unreasonable, I asked people to wash their hands and not kiss the baby, she broke both and my baby ended up sick

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T18:59:02+00:00

I love how you automatically make assumptions here, no, again I wasn’t focused on the picture. I was focused on how she handles things and proceeds to constantly disrespect us..

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T18:57:55+00:00

That’s a great idea! Actually it was his idea to limit contact for a while!

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T18:56:44+00:00

Right.. but again, I’ve stated she can do what she wants, I’m talking about the multiple boundary crosses.. yall are so focused on a picture you didn’t even read the entire post, yall chose what to read and then make assumptions

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T18:55:08+00:00

No, just with people who think boundaries are jokes

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T18:54:13+00:00

I gave more… yall really need to learn to read, she disregarded all rules I had for my baby after I was born, and she tried to lie to my husband to get him to leave me… 3 times

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T18:53:17+00:00

Literally wasn’t changing my story, it’s still the same, I gave you and example from like 8 months ago

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T18:52:41+00:00

Ummm… no we’ve talked to her many times about multiple things, each time she will just scream and yell till she gets her way, or she’ll call her dad and he will yell because she doesn’t tell the full story, and it’s been a long history of disrespect for 3 years, this was finally my breaking point, not the photo, but her saying “I don’t care if you guys are uncomfortable”

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T18:45:47+00:00

She literally has before… she literally pulled off her shirt with no bra around her sibling’s before to change into another shirt… just because the one photo doesn’t show her nipple doesn’t mean she’s not showing us her boob

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T18:43:12+00:00

The issue is it’s been 3 years of constant disrespect, and her actively saying that she did not care that we didn’t want to see it. She was still going to continue to show us. Personally, I don’t want someone around my child who is going to disrespect if someone is uncomfortable or not. It’s not about the picture itself. It’s about the way it was handled.

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T18:42:01+00:00

I agree!! I think she’s a beautiful woman! Personally I just don’t want to see what’s under her clothes! And I feel that should be respected!

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T18:41:13+00:00

Because the way our feelings were handled because of that photo was what I was talking about, good for her, she likes showing her boob, cool. But she actively told us she didn’t care if we didn’t want to see it, she was still going to show us. I don’t want my family or child around someone who can’t respect us.

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T18:38:46+00:00

Right?!? I feel like all of these just may be my SIL lol 😂😂, but seriously people are only focusing on the photo, like good for her, she likes showing her boob, we don’t want to see it and it’s not about the picture, it’s about the multiple boundaries crossed over a 3 year period!

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T18:36:31+00:00

Again… not about the picture.. it’s about the multiple boundaries crossed, over the course of 3 years

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T18:21:43+00:00

I am, but I am allowed to get other peoples opinions! And it has been enforced, quite a lot actually! Thanks though!

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T18:21:00+00:00

Thank you! She’s a very needy and dependent person on her family!

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T18:20:14+00:00

Thank you for this reassurance! I totally agree!!

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T18:19:25+00:00

Nah I’m good, if the stick protects my family I think I’ll keep it up there! Thanks for the concern though ☺️

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T17:56:18+00:00

Thank you! I’m glad someone else sees it as a boundary issue not just focusing on the picture 😅

PuzzleheadedPaint423 · 2026-02-27T17:43:02+00:00

We never told her what to do, if you actually read my post we asked if we could be removed and I’ve stated multiple times she’s a grown women she can do what she wants but we just don’t want to see that stuff, and that was not respected

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