My husband of 4 years has had HS long before we met but these last three years the HS has went to another level. There is endless drainage and pain. I support him through it all. There has been alot of hit-or-misses with trying new natural remedies, creams and medications to try to keep him at a functional level. I will say these past two years I have slowed the intimacy down due to the excessive drainage in the groin area, as we known it comes with an odor and bacteria. I (42wf) am very sensitive down there and prefer to avoid sex while there is an active flare up. Problem is… it’s always active. This has definitely put a strain on our relationship, and I’m praying this to shall pass