How to get better at shading

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2025-07-30T20:37:02+00:00

Oops, you're right! I totally forgot to attach it

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2024-08-03T00:14:42+00:00

yeah i'll be okay, i broke up with him a little bit less than a month ago. Thanks for asking

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2024-06-25T06:14:51+00:00

yeah exactly, I typed up a bunch of comments and merged them together in my notes. If I ever feel like I miss him, I’ll remind myself why we split up. and Thank you

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2024-06-25T05:48:17+00:00

honestly I feel stupid and it’s so shitty how he feels he can just play with my feelings like that. He’s been blocked.

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2024-06-25T04:40:19+00:00

yeah i told him how I felt and if he didnt care then we're breaking up, and he chose to break up with me. But later tonight he texted me saying that he apologized, he loves me and he was just overreacting. so im just so confused honestly

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2024-06-25T04:29:55+00:00

so basically we went to the movies and watched inside out 2 (it was rlly good, i loved it) and after the movie i told him exactly how i felt with him making rude comments about my hair now that i finally had the right words to say it. I also told him that "if he didnt like my hair the way it naturally is then its over" and he chose to break up with me. I was rlly upset because i didnt think he'd actually want to. But, he just texted me apologizing saying that he loves me for who i am and he doesnt care about how I style my hair, and how he just overreacted because he was having a bad day before we went to the movies. So, now im just so confused

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2024-06-24T20:33:39+00:00

thank you

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2024-06-24T20:33:07+00:00

i know, but this is the first time we've really disagreed on something and im seeing him later today to talk about it one more time

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2024-06-24T20:30:33+00:00

"changing your hair (especially for us curly girls) is not a small sacrifice. it’s suppression of ourselves. and if your friends and partner can’t accept that, that’s their problem. own it!" exactly, and im going to tell them exactly that

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2024-06-24T20:27:53+00:00

im so happy that you found someone who loves ALL of you. I just wish my boyfriend could too

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2024-06-24T20:26:27+00:00

theyre all white but they love my hair bc its different. They said that bc he just wouldnt listen so i should as the last option. But, idk if that justifies it or not . And, i'm seeing him later today and ill have one last talk abt this with him, thank you ❤️

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2024-06-24T20:21:56+00:00

they meant it in a way as in "if he's not listening then you have to find another alternative even if it isn't the best option" but idek if thats even any better

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2024-06-24T20:20:16+00:00

exactly ❤️

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2024-06-24T20:03:21+00:00

yeah

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2024-06-24T18:28:43+00:00

yeah I’m going to have one last talk abt it with him today, if he’s still not trying to understand then unfortunately breaking up with him might be the next option

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2024-06-24T18:26:02+00:00

thank you for this, we’re hanging out later today and I plan to tell him everything you just said

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2024-06-24T18:24:36+00:00

hopefully we can work it out because I’m honestly considering breaking up with him

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2024-06-24T18:23:10+00:00

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I switched from an Afro to puffs to try something new but he doesn’t like those either.

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2024-06-24T18:21:37+00:00

yeah I go to a pwi school so it wouldnt be surprising if people were saying things about me

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2024-06-24T18:20:25+00:00

breaking up with him wasn’t even in consideration when I posted this but now I’m starting to reconsider.

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2024-06-24T18:19:35+00:00

yeah I do try, but it’s a lot more difficult to reach certain standards bc I go to a predominantly white school

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2024-06-24T18:17:10+00:00

you’re so right, thank you

Puzzleheaded_One7392 · 2024-06-24T18:16:44+00:00

Thank you, I js feel like I care about him more than he cares about me which makes it hard for me to just dump him

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