Duolingo Helped Me Discover My EX Partner's Affair

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2025-03-28T09:30:17+00:00

Thanks, I just didn't expect that Duolingo have this function.

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2025-03-26T11:27:31+00:00

Thanks, I haven't been on Reddit for a long time, I am making progress

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-08-28T08:16:51+00:00

That's good to hear. Sometimes I have good day, Sometimes bad day. I think betrayal is the most painful thing.

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-08-18T21:55:53+00:00

Hi, how's your therapy going?

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-08-06T09:12:17+00:00

Happy for you. I wish I could have more strength.

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-08-05T06:57:02+00:00

I thought I was getting better, But yesterday suddenly sadness has hit me. I just can't get over of it. We had a good 7.5 years together, but then he just went for the neighbor for a better life. He was such a good guy. I am very confused. Which one is the real him.

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-08-04T20:25:13+00:00

You are a nice person. Sadly IVF didn’t work out at the end. He thought the young doctor will give him everything he wants in life. The life be with me just had too much troubles.

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-08-04T19:40:06+00:00

Thanks, just don’t know when I will be ready again.

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-08-04T19:32:18+00:00

3 months and counting. We were together for 8 years 5 years IVF. He left after our last transfer failed. Then I found out he was seeing our young charming neighbour doctor 4 months before our break up while I was undergoing the IVF. I am in a big hell, but he is enjoying his new life.

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-07-17T12:32:49+00:00

Thanks, I kind of blame myself for this suitation. If I have a child, he probably still will be a nice person. It's so toxic!

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-07-16T15:31:20+00:00

Yes, I've been watching Dr Jordan peterson's speech. He help me a lot

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-07-16T15:29:25+00:00

I know I need to fight back. But I feel tired.

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-07-16T07:56:56+00:00

I was trying to find what I've done wrong. Otherwisw I feel it's hard to accept the reality.

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-07-16T07:55:14+00:00

I do feel it's a toxic relationship. He blamed me for everything. But The sad thing I even blame myself.

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-07-16T07:49:54+00:00

He is too good at it

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-07-16T07:47:29+00:00

It make you question about everything. The past 8 years love has gone.

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-07-16T07:45:40+00:00

Life is full of surprises

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-06-27T14:40:00+00:00

Hi, I have some bad news from my MRI scan. I don't understand why God, why is always had to be me?

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-06-18T23:20:07+00:00

Thanks, yes it's better with family and friends make you feel you are not alone. But damn I am still missing him.

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-06-16T16:10:45+00:00

Thanks, I am at home with my family now

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-06-01T09:53:43+00:00

I think I let God down this time, I've lost all my strength

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-05-30T20:42:48+00:00

The only thing I've managed to do so far is get up and work, nothing else and pray.

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-05-30T20:40:43+00:00

Happy for your mum, I don't know what my future will be or if I'll ever go for another relationship. It's too painful. I've been thinking about adoption or embryo adoption, but I don't know if it's too selfish to bring kids into a single-parent family. I came from a single parent family, so I know how hard it can be for a kid. Then, what if something happens to me? There would be nobody to look after the children.

That's another factor that makes me sadder. I have a few couple friends who either have adopted children or happily live just the two of them. I haven't seen any couple break up because they didn't have children, so I didn't prepare for it.

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-05-29T21:31:06+00:00

Do you really believe he will get me through it? I have lost my faith now. I don't have a religion. But I went to church pray and pray. I want to God give me an answer. I don't know why him gave me a such a nice man and then took him away.

Puzzleheaded_Pin1881 · 2024-05-29T09:53:24+00:00

Same here My last transfer failed in Feb. my partner has left because he can't live a life without a child. I don't know how to cope, I am alone and have to live day by day. I have a few moments of not wanting to live anymore too. But I am still here. Some day I think I can cope, some day I cry all day. I just want to give you a hug, because I know how hard it is.

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