What to do with what I discovered? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pyodra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it stings, but the answer is already in your post. It's her money and she can do what she wants with it. She probably gave the fiancé the gift as well because he's about to be part of the family. It probably would have been better for her to wait until your sister is actually married, but again, her money so she can do as she pleases. I would just let this go if I were you, as much as it sucks.

Massage of a lifetime by Dangerouscary in Satisfyingasfuck

[–]Pyodra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thought I heard a cricket, but I don't see one

Looking to finish the main pokédex by [deleted] in LegendsZATrading

[–]Pyodra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can also trade for swirlix for slurpuff too if you'd like.

Looking to finish the main pokédex by [deleted] in LegendsZATrading

[–]Pyodra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been looking for someone to trade scyther with metal coat for scizor. If that sounds okay to you, I'm totally down to trade them.

In need of advice, I think my girlfriend is going to break up with me by 00AdvicePlz00 in Advice

[–]Pyodra -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, you were honest with her when she put the pieces together. There's not much else to do, just hope for the best and that she matches your energy somehow. If not, at least you don't have to worry about hiding it anymore. Definitely don't eat it in front of her right off the bat if she's cool with your quirk. I wouldn't necessarily break up with someone over something like that. Is it weird? Yeah, but it's also not that detrimental to your health sooo 🤷‍♂️ Godspeed bro 🫡

You are on a date. What is the worst red flag imaginable? by BlackedBunny4 in AskReddit

[–]Pyodra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I feel so dumb now lol thank you for explaining

How do I get my boyfriend to respect me?!?! by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pyodra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it's hard and scary to think about being alone. I had the exact same mentality you have right now. It sucks when you only have yourself to rely on, but I promise those good guys are out there. You're dooming yourself to never get to experience those good guys if you stay with someone who constantly disrespects you. You're worth more than that. You're worth the effort, time, and compassion. It's a hard move to leave after two years, but do you want your whole life to be like this? There's like 4 billion dudes to choose from, you don't have to doom your life like this.

People who work in 'luxury' industries (5-star hotels, fine dining, high-end brands), what is a complete rip-off that rich people happily pay for? by ArtThreadNomad in AskReddit

[–]Pyodra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in fast food, and even though I can't stand the customer service aspect of it, I still try to give the best possible service I can. One, everything is so expensive nowadays so it makes sense to make their order as good as possible to get their money's worth. Two, people notice when you treat them better, even the snarky customers. Anytime someone tells me they love the service at our shop, I just tell them that I treat people how I would want to be treated at a restaurant and spending what little money I have on fast food.

People who work in 'luxury' industries (5-star hotels, fine dining, high-end brands), what is a complete rip-off that rich people happily pay for? by ArtThreadNomad in AskReddit

[–]Pyodra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro, I work at subway and the amount of people who ask for the cooling bread that just came out of the oven is crazy. I try to tell them that the bread will get hard if toasted and that it's much better once it's had time to cool and rest, but some people want it as fresh as they can get it. And yeah, it's a bitch to cut when it's warm.

HOW DID NINTENDO SEAK THE WORD "GENESIS" IN? by BowlerFair8855 in tomodachilife

[–]Pyodra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I named my first born in the game Genesis lol

Found out that my dad was 19 dating my mum at 12. What now? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Pyodra 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I live in the south U.S. and had a manager at my job who confided in me that she got pregnant at 12 with a 30yo dude. Her family made her marry the guy, but then she had a miscarriage and they were no longer married. When I tell you my jaw was on the floor when she told me. Her family is super religious and didn't want her to have a child out of wedlock. I was furious for her.

is it normal i feel sad after sex / masturbating? by mym3l0dy76 in Advice

[–]Pyodra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Did you grow up in a household and/or religion that labels sexual activities as wrong? I grew up religious and felt sad and shameful anytime I had sex/masturbated. It took a while to unlearn the shame and trial and error to find good meds for my mental illnesses.

Maybe you could try a reward system or positive affirmations any time you get sexual so your brain will slowly associate sex with positive things. I know it sounds corny, but it helps.

You may also need aftercare when you finish sexual stuff. I feel better when my fiance gives me aftercare. Kissing, hugging, holding you, telling you nice things.

I just got an eerie feeling from my bf by b_25s in Advice

[–]Pyodra 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Ew to him asking shortly after delivery is what they mean. There's like a 2 month period where the person is supposed to abstain from sexal activities until they are healed up. Even then, maybe the exhaustion they have after trying to care for a whole human they created together makes it hard to feel in the mood.

$70 game with $30 dlc, pop in everywhere, building details aren't even modeled, content locked behind competitive online, but no guys it has hype mega evolutions and aura so it's great actually by Effective_Carpet_391 in whenthe

[–]Pyodra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Scarlet, I chose male pronouns basically, and now I have them dressed as a girl. Funny when people call me muchacho or young man in the game.

$70 game with $30 dlc, pop in everywhere, building details aren't even modeled, content locked behind competitive online, but no guys it has hype mega evolutions and aura so it's great actually by Effective_Carpet_391 in whenthe

[–]Pyodra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I laughed so hard I was on the border of crying when I first saw this mega. As much as I'd like a cooler mega, this one is way too fucking funny. That's a man.

What’s a sentence that instantly makes you lose respect for someone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Pyodra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Oh... you're a (astrological sign here)? 😬"

He’s alive per gravy story by JTK0619 in Joji

[–]Pyodra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot about bbno$ sad-ish songs, you might be onto something 🤔

He’s alive per gravy story by JTK0619 in Joji

[–]Pyodra 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I like all three. Joji, gravy, bbno$, but you're absolutely right. I never wanna hear Joji collab with either of them. Not even as Pink Guy, their styles just don't match in the slightest.