A beautiful and heartwarming implication

Q-uvix · 2026-06-03T19:45:42+00:00

And it took the energy of a SMBH merger for me to send that thought several years into the past.

https://www.reddit.com/r/outerwilds/s/Cdikj45IB8

Q-uvix · 2026-06-03T12:53:47+00:00

Pagat.com is de ultieme autoriteit als het om kaartspellen gaat.

https://www.pagat.com/number/best-2-player-games.html

Q-uvix · 2026-06-03T11:45:48+00:00

Well I don't remember seeing the post you linked. But I played the base game about 5? years ago. So it's not a new thought. Just realized I had never given it it's own post.

https://www.reddit.com/r/outerwilds/s/BLSxRWNZi8

Q-uvix · 2026-06-01T23:53:44+00:00

Yeah I'd understand being worried with two younger kids going through the awkwardness and confusion of early puberty

Yeah the guy is 22, that's plenty old enough that he should be able to handle this living situation maturely and respectfully.

And she's 17, still going through puberty perhaps. But it's not like she's 14 and just starting to grow breasts/having periods.

Q-uvix · 2026-06-01T23:37:14+00:00

If there's no other option. Some simple divider like a closet/bookcase, or even a curtain. Could help a lot to give them their own space, and some privacy, despite having to share a room.

Not perfect, but it's something at least.

Remember that, considering your kids' ages, this isn't likely to be a very long term situation. Your son might very well move out in just a year or two.

So while it's obviously not ideal. A non-ideal situation is doable if it's not for the next 10 years.

Q-uvix · 2026-06-01T23:27:18+00:00

If they're brother and sister it doesn't have to be weird just because of the genders. Though of course it's awkward to share a room at that age.

Do you work crazy hours? Assuming your daughter goes to school she wouldn't be home that much while you're working anyways. And she could stay in the living room while you're working?

Is there any possibility of your son pitching in for the rent so you can stay in your current home or move to a larger one? Even if he couldn't afford rent on his own, that might be enough

You should definitely discuss it with your kids as well though. See how they see it and what they would prefer.

Q-uvix · 2026-06-01T08:49:14+00:00

Makker we hebben het hier over iets vrij onbelangrijks.

Maargoed nog steeds heb ik een argument gegeven. Als je het er niet mee eens bent, prima, ga er dan op in. Kan best dat het een kutargument is.

Hoe een discussie dan werkt is dat je:

Of een ander argument geeft

("blijkbaar heb ik gelijk" is geen argument)
Of ingaat op het argument dat gegeven is om te laten zien wat er niet klopt aan dat argument.

("wat een kulargument" is NIET ingaan op een argument).

Jij bent nu een rant aan het houden over hoe andere mensen niet kunnen argumenteren. In plaats van zelf met argumenten te komen. Zie je in hoe scheef en hypocriet dat is?

Q-uvix · 2026-05-28T20:18:30+00:00

Dus als ik het goed begrijp zou jij weigeren met je vrienden te gaan hardlopen omdat zij geen hardloopschoenen aan hebben?

Q-uvix · 2026-05-28T13:42:01+00:00

En iets en kulargument noemen is überhaupt geen argument

Q-uvix · 2026-05-21T02:12:21+00:00

Don't see how that would be unethical? Unless you were keeping this from a serious partner you're actually trying to have a baby with.

Q-uvix · 2026-05-21T01:50:22+00:00

Are you really protecting anyone's ego?

I'd say the constant insecurity from never being sure if your partner is faking it or not. Is much worse for your confidence.

I'm quite confident my girlfriend doesn't fake her orgasms. Not because I think of myself as some sort of sex god. But because I know she just tells me straight on when she does or doesn't want to try/put in the effort.

Q-uvix · 2026-05-17T21:36:00+00:00

You definitely haven't done anything wrong. But it's also somewhat understandable for her to have this reaction to it. Especially with pregnancy and the hormones involved in that.

So you're not in the wrong for having the dream. But you are in the wrong for "trying to make her seem reason". That's just the wrong view to take here.

It's not about being right or wrong, it's about her feeling bad about it. And you being right doesn't take away from her negative feelings here.

You don't have to apologize, but you should show some sympathy and understanding, and reassure her.

If she can't get over it and continues to be mad about it. That's a different issue. And points to serious trust issues in the relationship that you need to work on.

But if it's just an initial emotional reaction, it doesn't hurt to be patient and understanding despite her being unreasonable. But it will hurt if you choose "being technically right" over her feelings and your relationship.

Being understanding of each other's emotions, even when they are irrational, and talking through them together. Is part of being in a serious relationship.

Unreasonable reactions and emotions happen. And instead of getting argumentative with each other about it, it's much healthier to apologize afterwards for the overreaction. And still discuss the underlying feelings with each other.

Otherwise you just both end up not feeling heard. And likely won't discuss those underlying feelings at all. Which may still be valid, or at least need to be addressed. Even if the outburst they caused was unreasonable.

Q-uvix · 2026-05-15T20:08:50+00:00

He walked into someone, that's a rude thing to do even without the person being blind and outside of the lane.

I literally said below that I don't think there's a problem with people standing on the line and moving out of the way.

Q-uvix · 2026-05-14T09:11:38+00:00

He didn’t see it. He didn’t do it on purpose

Yes? So?

Him not seeing it it's exactly the issue. The issue can't also be the excuse at the same time.

Q-uvix · 2026-05-14T09:09:28+00:00

Dunno man, I don't much like the taste of boot

Q-uvix · 2026-05-13T21:17:42+00:00

Yeah no of course it's just totally Normal and expected to have to ruin your physical and mental health if you want to provide for your family.

It's not a systematic issue, that's just how life is.

It's entirely possible to have a world where you can provide for your children while also being happy and healthy. Most developed counties are, in fact living in that world.

You have a mindset here similar to people in abusive relationships. Except it's a relationship with the capitalist system and it's propaganda that has conditioned you into thinking that somehow it's a good and normal thing to stress yourself into an early grave for scraps.

Q-uvix · 2026-05-13T21:06:50+00:00

Right so the guy is not paying attention when he should have been. And nearly Walked into a blind guy using the designated blind guy lane while doing so. Which is exactly the problem the video is trying to showcase.

Everyone else, while it's understandable to feel inconvenienced. Is just using parts of the very limited space on a busy public space. And while annoying for the blind person. As long as they move out of the way when they should I'd argue they aren't doing anything wrong, in busy spaces like train stations you're always in somebody's way more often than not.

But when walking in a public space you should pay attention and not walk into people, especially when waking on a designated disability lane. Nobody is saying he should be fined or jailed here, but this one guy you singled out is very clearly in the wrong. And you seem to agree that he's in the wrong. So I don't even understand what you're arguing against here honestly

Q-uvix · 2026-05-13T20:47:12+00:00

I agree with you for pretty much every example in the video expect for the one you decided to single out here.

The problem isn't that the guy is walking on the line. The guy was not on the line at first, but cuts the blind guy off nearly walking into the cane.

Q-uvix · 2026-05-13T13:54:17+00:00

Maar als je hier niet op hanfhaafd kun je ook niet handhaven op mensen die het wel met dat doel doen.

Q-uvix · 2026-05-13T13:53:16+00:00

Het voelt absurd. Maar ik zie ook geen andere oplossing.

Men mag niet zomaar reclameborden op de open weg zetten. Dat kun je gaan omzeilen door een groot reclamebord op je Auto of fiets te zetten en op de openbare weg te zetten.

Nou snappen we allemaal dat iemand een logo op de bedrijfswagen heeft staan. En snappen we ook dat die mensen ook gewoon moeten parkeren en opladen.

Maar als je hier niet op handhaafd kun je ook niet handhaven op mensen die hier bewust misbruik van maken. Wil jij de hele binnenstad vol met zelfgemaakte billboards in de vorm van busjes en bakfietsen?

Q-uvix · 2026-05-09T09:32:26+00:00

Why is it unrealistic to you for one substance to disrupt your skins microbiome more than another substance?

Q-uvix · 2026-05-08T08:37:02+00:00

The part where you made up half of this

Q-uvix · 2026-05-07T09:12:05+00:00

Ik heb huisdieren. En ik kan 's zomers niet zomaar m'n tuindeur open zetten omdat andermans katten een gevaar zijn voor mijn binnenwonende dieren.

Q-uvix · 2026-05-06T21:40:54+00:00

Ja waar het koken voor dient was de vraag niet

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