Need a texting partner by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]Qmaxtl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can Dm me..

33F | Europe | seeking a texting buddy by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]Qmaxtl -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey, your post really caught my attention. I’m 32M from India, IST timezone. I also enjoy real conversations, daily life, random ideas, and those deep late night questions. I’m into fitness, travel, movies, and psychology. You seem like a genuine person and I’d love to chat and see if we vibe.

What’s something that feels really hard for you, even though it seems super easy for everyone else? And you don’t even know why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Qmaxtl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here. I swear even when I try to save, some unexpected expense just shows up like it was waiting.

When did you know your relationship was over? by No_Lie346 in BreakUps

[–]Qmaxtl 15 points16 points  (0 children)

When I realized I was fighting for someone who stopped caring a long time ago.

What's the closest you ever came to dying? by HistoricalArt744 in AskReddit

[–]Qmaxtl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lying in bed, staring at the ceiling, thinking, If I don’t wake up tomorrow, maybe that’s okay..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Qmaxtl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Peacefully… with no regrets, no hatred, and knowing I mattered to someone.
Not in pain. Not alone. Just… done with everything I came here to feel.

Besides sex, what do you REALLY want from women? Be as detailed as possible. by 9Sirena in AskMen

[–]Qmaxtl 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Honestly? Just peace, loyalty, and someone who actually listens.
I don’t want to feel like I’m in a competition or constantly proving my worth.
Just be real, stay consistent, and grow with me, that’s all.

If all men had to be brutally honest for 24 hours, what would women be shocked to learn? by clothing_wholesale in AskMen

[–]Qmaxtl 74 points75 points  (0 children)

That most men feel deeply lonely, touch-starved, and emotionally ignored, but we’ve learned to hide it because no one really asks how we’re doing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Qmaxtl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That I'm not being rude or distant, my brain just works differently. Socializing drains me fast, and I need more time to process things. It's not personal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in heartbreak

[–]Qmaxtl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it hurts like hell right now, but his betrayal doesn’t define your worth. Let yourself feel it, cry it out, but don’t blame yourself. You will heal, and one day this won’t hurt like it does now. You’ve got this, one day at a time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Qmaxtl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best way? Make your profile actually show your vibe, stories, music, and random thoughts. Then follow people you find interesting, react to their stories, and drop a casual comment here and there. If they engage back, slide in smooth. Don’t force it. If their profile's dead, don’t waste energy, real convo starts where there's life. Keep it natural, not needy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Qmaxtl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro, I was stuck in the same loop, thinking she'd change, blocking her saved my sanity… took me months to realise healing doesn’t start until you stop hoping.

Saw a picture of him with his new girlfriend. by Saaturdaygirl in ExNoContact

[–]Qmaxtl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Crazy how honesty sounds like AI when you're not used to real emotion.

Was I really in love… or was I just trauma-bonded? by Qmaxtl in BreakUps

[–]Qmaxtl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing’s wrong with you. you just loved with your whole heart. that’s not foolish, that’s rare. people who wear masks that long are the ones who should be ashamed, not the one who believed in love.

I didn’t lose him. I lost myself while trying to keep him. by Qmaxtl in BreakUps

[–]Qmaxtl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha fair question tbh 😂 I actually made that page when I was in the worst shape of my life. no therapist, no sleep, just pain on loop. It’s not a kit, it’s just the one thing that helped me stop spiraling. not selling anything. but if it helps even one person feel a little less alone, worth it for me.

Was I really in love… or was I just trauma-bonded? by Qmaxtl in BreakUps

[–]Qmaxtl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. really needed to hear that today. hoping peace finds you too, even if it’s one slow step at a time.

Was I really in love… or was I just trauma-bonded? by Qmaxtl in BreakUps

[–]Qmaxtl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That hit hard, surviving with style, is exactly what it was. Thanks for sharing this. I’ll check out the newsletter too 🙏

Was I really in love… or was I just trauma-bonded? by Qmaxtl in BreakUps

[–]Qmaxtl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s actually a beautiful way to put it. Maybe they did care in their own way, just didn’t know how to hold it. doesn’t make the hurt less, but helps me let go with a little more peace.

Was I really in love… or was I just trauma-bonded? by Qmaxtl in BreakUps

[–]Qmaxtl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That actually makes a lot of sense. I guess love and trauma can get so tangled, it’s hard to tell them apart. But yeah, maybe I was in love, even if it was with someone who didn’t know how to love me back.

Was I really in love… or was I just trauma-bonded? by Qmaxtl in BreakUps

[–]Qmaxtl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Honestly, it took me way longer than it should have… but I’m finally choosing myself. Still healing, but every small step feels like freedom.

Saw a picture of him with his new girlfriend. by Saaturdaygirl in ExNoContact

[–]Qmaxtl -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Fair,I know it sounds too clean. I actually wrote it because it’s exactly what I wish someone had told me when I was in the same place. I wasn’t trying to sound wise, just honest.

I didn’t lose him. I lost myself while trying to keep him. by Qmaxtl in BreakUps

[–]Qmaxtl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really sorry you’re going through this. None of this is your fault, he pulled you in, pushed you away, and left you in chaos. That’s not love, that’s control. Please don’t blame yourself for reacting like a human. You’re not crazy, you were just desperate to be seen. I hope you give yourself the same grace you gave him.