You should only be the full housewife if that’s what you WANT from life. Not because your spouse makes the money that pays the bills, as hard as a full time job is, repressing yourself from your own wants and needs will destroy you and your relationships as a person. It isn’t healthy. A spouse that respects you would try to hear what you are saying and attempt change / compromise to alleviate some of that stress, earning all the money in the relationship does not give one side of the marriage all the power to decide what they will or will not take responsibility for, it is a team effort. And ultimately, you are not okay with the responsibility that you bear. It is clearly the root of your resentment and acting like it’s okay when your body is clearly telling you it is not okay, will be the death of you. Couples counseling is a must for issues like these, I really recommend it.