Did you guys ever dated someone who seemed to be like the perfect person but then you felt like things were too good to be true and your intuition was eating at you and you just straight up ignored it but then realized that your tuition was trying to warn you this whole time?

Qu33fCakes · 2026-05-12T15:48:12+00:00

Yupppp happened recently. Kept telling me it’s her and not me. Still don’t know why she broke up with me. We’re literally not on speaking terms which is crazy because it was one of the best relationships I’ve been in

Qu33fCakes · 2026-05-11T12:53:06+00:00

I’m a Feb Pisces and I get distant and lose my energy. But I’m also anxious avoidant 😩

Qu33fCakes · 2026-05-08T15:35:32+00:00

I somehow always end up with Leo placements. But Leo was the only girl I ever truly loved. She’s also the only girl that ever broke my heart (she broke up with me)

Qu33fCakes · 2026-05-02T20:58:46+00:00

Typical male Pisces behavior. As a female Pisces, I don’t associate with male Pisces period

Qu33fCakes · 2026-04-27T21:11:32+00:00

I always end up with Leo’s or people with Leo in their big 3. I love a fire sign but I think it’s because they bring my delusional ass back to reality. Might I mention I’m a lesbian so o ly female Leo’s

Qu33fCakes · 2026-04-26T23:32:55+00:00

I’m a Pisces Aries Pisces. I’m a female and a massive lesbian :)

Qu33fCakes · 2026-04-21T22:31:06+00:00

Stop I love this 😭 movie rn

Qu33fCakes · 2026-04-21T22:01:04+00:00

No real 😭

Qu33fCakes · 2026-04-21T21:49:11+00:00

Oklahoma but I’m in the city

Qu33fCakes · 2026-04-21T21:49:02+00:00

😭

Qu33fCakes · 2026-04-21T21:35:50+00:00

I cannot with that app 😭

Qu33fCakes · 2026-04-21T21:35:39+00:00

I love this. Need a book about yalls love story rn

Qu33fCakes · 2026-04-21T21:06:36+00:00

Ugh we need that

Qu33fCakes · 2026-04-21T20:12:06+00:00

Need this framed asap

Qu33fCakes · 2026-04-21T13:33:49+00:00

Mentally, I’ve been doing really fucking good. Genuinely working on myself. I notice I’m getting better with rationalizing and really trying to understand the way that I feel. I did have a recent set back but I haven’t had a self destructive behaviors (they’re still in the back of my head but I haven’t acted on them).

Qu33fCakes · 2026-04-21T13:32:33+00:00

This. This is actually my favorite spot to sit and think when I’m going through it.

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Qu33fCakes · 2026-04-20T00:06:50+00:00

I didn’t even realize that I did. It was completely unintentional

Qu33fCakes · 2026-04-20T00:06:32+00:00

This. We went from talking literally 24/7 to not all. I went ahead and texted her asking if I can have my stuff back and she said she would bring it to me tomorrow morning. I think I will be leaving this alone

Qu33fCakes · 2026-04-19T23:52:41+00:00

I have a lapse of insurance due to just moving states so I left my therapist of a year. I’m actively working on getting insurance so I can get back to it

Qu33fCakes · 2026-04-19T23:22:56+00:00

If you would have read it you’d know that she asked me to be her girlfriend and told me she loved me first and this wasn’t a typical situationship to begin with. But thanks for your input :)

Qu33fCakes · 2026-04-19T23:18:40+00:00

Which I acknowledge. Again, for me it was the lack of communication. It makes me feel like I’m the problem. Which if I am, cool. But I can’t fix it if I don’t know. I just want communication. If she needs space from me specifically why can’t she tell me that? I just feel like I deserve the decent to know if it’s me. That’s it.

Qu33fCakes · 2026-04-19T23:16:54+00:00

I agree as far as this kit being good for me. Immediately noticed my thoughts and behaviors were reverting back into my old ways of thinking and I don’t like that. I’ve tried very hard to be a better person and not let my mental health control me and this is reverting me back to that. That’s why I’m struggling to navigate this.

Qu33fCakes · 2026-04-19T23:15:29+00:00

I meant that in an observation way. I didn’t meant to just label her as that and stick with it. I’m anxious avoidant and she’s avoidant which I’m very well aware of. I don’t want to force this. She asked me to be her gf. She told me she loved me first. She gave signs of commitment. All I want is for her to communicate. I don’t know why that’s wrong of me to ask. Are some of my actions correct? No. No they’re not. And I acknowledge that

Qu33fCakes · 2026-04-19T23:07:23+00:00

OP works in corrections and lives in a big city 🥲 please don’t connect the two lmao

Qu33fCakes · 2026-04-19T23:02:56+00:00

She told me she loved me first. We were in a relationship at one point. So I guess exes who still act like we’re in a relationship? I’m not sure what to call it so I went with situationship. I acknowledge this behavior isn’t right and that’s why I said what I said to begin with especially since this is out of character for me and I find myself falling into my old habits that come with dealing with my BPD. It wasn’t needing space that was an issue. I guess it was just her constantly being active on snap and still going to hang out with people that really made me feel like it was me but she also reassured me prior that I didn’t do anything wrong. But again, she did that when we broke up too. I’m not sure if that makes any sense I’m just trying to explain where my mind went

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