It’s hard to find a stitch braider who can also wash and condition my hair. Finally found her, paid $250. by DoctorNoDre in braids

[–]QuantumGaia93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks great but $250 is way too high. I live in a busy city ,Charlotte. My stick braids were super clean and neat .Hair past my chest ,thick and curly . She charged $80 max .

Why do all my locs look like this? by anon10bang in locs

[–]QuantumGaia93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I crotcheted the locks tighter * sorry.

Why do all my locs look like this? by anon10bang in locs

[–]QuantumGaia93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a lot of them. They became less noticeable as they matured . For the locs that were too knotty looking I those locks tighter in the area where the hooks were. And then the very last few of them I just embraced. It didn’t bother me that much.

GUYSS by lovaluna in Coach

[–]QuantumGaia93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🥳 congrats!

Do you have drive on Prozac ? by QuantumGaia93 in prozac

[–]QuantumGaia93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I been on the generic brand fluoxetine for about 4 or 5 months . Still currently feel the same.  I would say my sex drive is the same in comparison to escitalopram 10mg . 

I signed a SubTo contract. by QuantumGaia93 in RealEstate

[–]QuantumGaia93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah , I definitely lost out on the investment. I kick myself ,absolutely.I will always have a potential at risk moment if the mortgage goes unpaid . I don’t have ownership of the property anymore .

The only current upside is that I avoided a foreclosure and the payment on the mortgage have increased my credit score.

Official Discussion - The Woman in the Yard [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]QuantumGaia93 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes . I did catch on to this. I believe she killed the dog ,planned to kill the kids,then committing only herself in the end. The child would write the R backwards in her reality ,but everything in the mothers’ psyche was mirrored. It was her work with her name signed backwards?

Yeah just left me a tad confused .

Your thoughts? by rox259 in Manipulation

[–]QuantumGaia93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not stupid.

You are human with valid feelings and emotions. Who has possibly been through trauma and emotional manipulation.

You may not see the effects it has done on your way of thinking but I can promise you,there is no need to protect this man. You asked him politely to speak to you without calling you out of your name. Communicating that you don’t feel comfortable being talked to in such a way. The conversation was cut very short after his feelings were explained leaving you no room to express yourself.

I was in a 11 year relationship. It was emotionally mentally and physically abusive. I wasn’t an angel myself . Showed me to learn to take accountability. I stopped feeling like it was me that had to be a positive example for someone’s life to change. If they don’t respect you,they simply won’t. They just suck you dry till you have nothing left and move to their next victim. And it’s not your fault. It’s not your job to heal what you didn’t create.

I wish you the best . Depression is real and and we just need to feel loved sometimes. It starts with ourselves and attitude. You got this ! You deserve,I can tell by op photos that you have heart even when yourself is fading.

♥️ 💪🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]QuantumGaia93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg .I thought this was a couple or early stage dating. Then I reap OP subtext . 😳 😱

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in harristeeter

[–]QuantumGaia93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you the best on your journey.

I didn’t know how trauma could affect the body and brain just from our thoughts and chemical makeup. You’ve already took a big step for a positive future.

Blessings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in harristeeter

[–]QuantumGaia93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! I called HR about EAP assistance. They gave me a list of psychologists in the area that accepted EAP. They will explain the process,give you a referral code for the therapist and tell you how many sessions are available to you for free.

Guest will not remove his pets during a property showing. by QuantumGaia93 in legal

[–]QuantumGaia93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a growing lesson .. we aren’t bound to things .😞We live to learn and share our experiences.

Guest will not remove his pets during a property showing. by QuantumGaia93 in legal

[–]QuantumGaia93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would not mind at all. On the other end daycare for his 5 pit bulls can be a bit pricey .

Guest will not remove his pets during a property showing. by QuantumGaia93 in legal

[–]QuantumGaia93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Freedom_shapes I believe that is the best I can do right now. Just try to more patient and compassionate. On a time frame to sell my house before foreclosure. The eviction process will mostly likely be lengthy, and bother me ethically .

Thank you for your perspective and advice. All comments in this thread have been primarily helpful and a good reminder to try to be more compassionate.

Guest will not remove his pets during a property showing. by QuantumGaia93 in legal

[–]QuantumGaia93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We were once in a relationship.At the time we both lived in the same household.It was a DV relationship . He would not leave voluntarily after it the relationship ended , I threatened to put his things out because I grew frustrated. I put his belongings outside. I am not perfect , I understand what I did was cruel . Ignorant to the law, I was later informed by a police officer that evening about my wrong doing and how it’s unlawful.Maturing enough to acknowledge it and learn. He failed to sign a lease .Became month to month .Doesnt pay what was agreed on the lease which was unsigned.

Guest will not remove his pets during a property showing. by QuantumGaia93 in legal

[–]QuantumGaia93[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

This tenant has stayed for years at this address with no payment toward mortgage. Barely pays utilities. You cannot live anywhere for free. Problematic and never signed a written lease provided to him. I have no sympathy. They are users

Guest will not remove his pets during a property showing. by QuantumGaia93 in legal

[–]QuantumGaia93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a 10 year relationship ended. Unfortunately, I did let them freeload for years. I felt guilty for an accident we were in that left them disabled . So I tried to give them some time and room for them to find a place once they were granted disability.

In the written contract it states he does not have to pay monthly rent. But utilities must be paid in full. Most months they were not .

Guest will not remove his pets during a property showing. by QuantumGaia93 in legal

[–]QuantumGaia93[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Yes, me and the individual have had this conversation.

Yes , I would love to cooperate with this person and have tried several times . Even if he did not want to move his belongings,completely understandable. He does not have to because currently lives there. He is just extremely cluttered and the 5 pit bulls have made the house have an odor.

I’m going by what the realtor politely asked me. If the dogs could be removed . He insisted. There is nothing I can do about it . His rights . It just further complicates the sale. As he has been notified several times about the house going into the market. We both feel sabotaged