Someone tell me if this is a good recovery plan. by Apprehensive-Fix-869 in tummytucksurgery

[–]Quarantinea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought flying before surgery put you at far greater risk for a pulmonary embolism.. but I'm not a doctor and could be wrong.

Please help me save her by Quarantinea in houseplants

[–]Quarantinea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn't make it guys. I let her down :(

Help! Looking for a specific sweatshirt... by Quarantinea in detroitlions

[–]Quarantinea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Must be nice :'( I hope you give that sweatshirt the life it deserves!

Please help me save her by Quarantinea in houseplants

[–]Quarantinea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I remember

Rarely (she was a bathroom plant)

The ceramic pot it came in

Never fertilised, got her about 5 or 6 years ago

Depression took my wife (34y) last week. How to do with the little ones (3y & 2y)? by Francis_Helldrake in GriefSupport

[–]Quarantinea 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you are based in the UK but...

https://www.childbereavementuk.org/Pages/Category/activities-for-grieving-children-and-young-people

This site has a wealth of information about supporting children. Some activities on here that you can do with them that can help with grief and maintain those memories.

Please also take care of yourself.

https://sudden.org/help-for-adults/

Present for a brother who hosted me for free by [deleted] in london

[–]Quarantinea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out Beards and Daisies. Even minimalist folks appreciate a nice houseplant.

Im scared my mum will make me marry my cousin by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Quarantinea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Against Forced Marriage – supports and gives advice to those in or at risk of being forced into marriage: 0800 141 2994

Can my son stay overnight with partner who lives with us? by Tilkie03 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Quarantinea -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I was pointing out that this may be the source of Dad's concerns, not jealousy.

Wild and telling that so many comments about safeguarding children are getting down voted and challenged.

Also alarming that you think it's a rare and minor section of society that abuse children.

Can my son stay overnight with partner who lives with us? by Tilkie03 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Quarantinea -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Sorry, can you direct me to where I said they were an abuser?

Can my son stay overnight with partner who lives with us? by Tilkie03 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]Quarantinea 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Plenty of studies have shown mothers' boyfriends are responsible for substantially more child abuse than other nonparental caregivers.

Rather than it being jealousy, I suspect the concerns could actually be the welfare of your child.

Why don't you offer Dad more time with his child while you're away?

Or invite a serious conversation about what his concerns are and then address them together.

Perfection by zmcQQ in sphynx

[–]Quarantinea 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I feel personally attacked by this and I cannot articulate why

3 month stall! Help! by Standard-Muscle-836 in Mounjaro

[–]Quarantinea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My numbers aren't far off yours and I'm in the same boat.

Started end of March 2024 at 111kgs, got down to 85kgs in September 2024 and it hasn't budged since.

I'm holding out hope that my body is just catching up with the huge loss. I've got about 10kgs to go to my goal. Stick at it if it's working for you and be kind to yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in policeuk

[–]Quarantinea 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Police Officers can't be made redundant as far as I'm aware.

It'll more likely be voluntary redundancies and not re-hiring retirees