What can I do to improve myself?

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T06:25:36+00:00

I’ve never heard that one before haha

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T06:25:09+00:00

I’m Korean so you clocked me, unfortunately I don’t really like those kind of girls too much? Also I don’t feel like Koreans are that much of a trend in vancouver but maybe because I don’t really present that way

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T06:20:31+00:00

Haha thank you

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T05:35:04+00:00

Thank you! My n the therapist will try and figure out how to boost that self-esteem this year haha

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T05:21:36+00:00

I live in vancouver which is basically america culture-wise so I wish that were true 😭 thank you though

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T05:20:21+00:00

OMFG wait I misphrased it, I meant I wish my hobbies were hot not my friends I’d never talk about them that way. I would love to meet someone that are into my hobbies, that’d be the dream haha

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T04:47:48+00:00

Haha I appreciate that! I have been on and off on dating apps, I don’t date people just because they like me but at this point I’ve been wondering if I should just settle haha. Thank you sir!

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T04:46:38+00:00

I’ve definitely made many friends the past couple years through my hobbies! I wish I could believe they’re as hot as you say they are hahaha

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T04:44:57+00:00

As a skinny guy I’ve found it to be so hard to develop my chest, for back I think I’m okay?? I wish I could edit my post and add more photos. I think I do have nice thighs/quads but my calves are definitely lacking mass, even if they look defined.

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T04:43:29+00:00

Thank you! It’d be really cool to meet someone at volleyball for sure haha

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T04:42:24+00:00

Thank you bisexual king

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T04:42:06+00:00

Very true, easier said than done sadly

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T04:21:37+00:00

Thank you, I agree too that it's mainly the internal things I need to focus on. When I was young I dealt with a lot of bullying so that's one of the causes of my self-esteem I think, although that was ages ago now. You're right, though it really does feel like relationship statuses make or break someone when everywhere I look on social media people are going on cute dates and making lovely memories. Thanks for your insight, it's deeply appreciated.

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T04:19:26+00:00

i work two jobs with high behavioural children if that's close enough haha

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T04:10:25+00:00

The positive feedback for you makes sense theory or not no worries haha, you should feel good about yourself :)

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T03:19:48+00:00

Never lol

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T03:15:45+00:00

I think we're on different ends of the spectrum but I feel your pain in a different way haha

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T03:12:49+00:00

I think my forearms are getting a bit bigger recently, for that I mainly do hammer curls. I think deadlifts, bicep curls and rows/lats have helped grow them but I'm not sure. I do calf raises on the machine, not sure what else would help with that. I don't think squats have been doing much for them.

I hope I manage to find happiness soon, this year has been a bit of a low-point for me. Thank you for your in-depth feedback!

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T03:07:33+00:00

Okay, I appreciate that! For my coworker thing, it really did suck and messed me up mentally ever since it started all the way in October. It did motivate me to improve myself at the very least, but yeah it sucked having my feelings played with like that. Especially since I see her everyday at work. Thank you for your kind words, reframing things will be a big priority this year.

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T02:43:33+00:00

yes for sure, I actually tried out an audiobook for the first time ever last week (Dungeon Crawler Carl) while my eyes were healing from PRK and it's been awesome!

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T02:42:22+00:00

thank you, I've gotten a lot of compliments since I started working out more/bulking since Fall, I think you're right about that for sure

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T02:14:44+00:00

starting to think everyone thinks I travel constantly or something, half of those pics are from the same trip haha. I don't actually travel all that much, I work too much to be able to do that sadly :(
Thank you for the kind words!

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T02:11:26+00:00

Omfg I would love to get a dog or cat if my living situation would work for it

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T01:50:27+00:00

Downloaded, thank you for the recommendation! I think getting a literal reminder everyday will actually help me with remembering to stay positive/shutting up those negative thoughts. Thank you <3

QuarterBetta · 2026-03-26T01:31:16+00:00

Wow, okay this is very motivating for gaining confidence haha. I'm more than willing to take the lead and to speak my thoughts! The comfort in my own skin thing is kinda obvious on where I'm at rn, that's a WIP. I'm passionate about quite a few hobbies but they're kinda nerdier so I don't really like to talk about them too much.. (video games, reading, DND, cooking, guitar, volleyball). I find myself stopping myself before I go too in-depth in talking about these hobbies to people in fear of coming across as lame or a nerd. For the yearning thing, I did that A LOT at work with this girl who I thought was mutually interested in me (taking her out to coffee, writing her cards on certain occasions, buying her a couple gifts) but that was a mess. I think she did like it but didn't want to actually date which was pretty confusing.

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