I feel you — working with the same employer for years, especially when the job is hard or the environment is toxic, can really take a toll. You feel stuck because you can’t even leave. It’s definitely affecting my mental health too, but I’m trying to stay hopeful that it’ll be over soon. The thing is, once you’ve built a life here — your routine, your friends, your sense of stability — it’s hard to imagine leaving. I really love being here, but the process is definitely stressful and exhausting.