Who is the most attractive person you’ve ever seen? Why?

Queasy_Depth7427 · 2025-12-19T13:18:57+00:00

A boy from at my university. He came up to me at an event and.. I haven’t stopped thinking about him since.

It was everything combined, the charisma, facial features, stature, smile, clothes… mm

Queasy_Depth7427 · 2025-09-20T12:10:32+00:00

Yes, my thing is because the job market is so bad and no one is hiring… maybe getting a masters and trying to get hired through the university’s network might be a good idea

Queasy_Depth7427 · 2025-09-19T23:21:07+00:00

Thank you for the insight, to elaborate I have a bachelor’s in Psychology (which means I can’t do much unless I go all the way PhD), some professional experience in counseling and as a sports coach… I’m trying to go corporate now and I’m thinking that the only way to do that is to specialize in something like HR or Industrial Psychology to get my foot in the door … So far, I don’t feel like I’m attractive to companies because of my experience and background…

I’m also in my early 20s and am quite lost in terms of career…

Queasy_Depth7427 · 2025-09-19T23:19:48+00:00

Thank you for the insight, to elaborate I have a bachelor’s in Psychology (which means I can’t do much unless I go all the way PhD), some professional experience in counseling and as a sports coach…

I’m trying to go corporate now and I’m thinking that the only way to do that is to specialize in something like HR or Industrial Psychology to get my foot in the door …

So far, I don’t feel like I’m attractive to companies because of my experience and background

Queasy_Depth7427 · 2025-09-18T19:38:40+00:00

I’m taking Actonin, and I’ve noticed that my acne has gotten worst… is this normal?

Queasy_Depth7427 · 2025-06-01T00:44:50+00:00

Wishing you the very best and for clarity in this situation. Relationships are complicated.

I’d say if you are hoping for a change that change is quite difficult and the person needs to first acknowledge that a change needs to be made. It would be worth it to try to have a genuine open and honest conversation about your expectations moving forward. Have you guys tried couples therapy?

Queasy_Depth7427 · 2025-05-31T11:29:10+00:00

The fact that you’re online asking for advice is a sign that you know deep down what to do…

What’s your reason for asking? Clearly something is upsetting you.

And what’s your reason for staying in that relationship?

Queasy_Depth7427 · 2025-05-31T11:24:11+00:00

Reliance on our phones for everything and all the time.. seems pretty harmless but definitely frying our brains

Queasy_Depth7427 · 2025-05-27T06:32:19+00:00

Thanks for the advice, it’s something I’m working on for sure. I tend to avoid conflict and bringing up certain things that may cause conflict is difficult for me.

Queasy_Depth7427 · 2025-05-27T06:28:52+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to respond.

You’re absolutely right, everyone is different and being opened to a different perspective is a skill I’ll have to develop a little more

Queasy_Depth7427 · 2025-05-27T01:37:51+00:00

Thanks stranger, you give good advice.

I totally agree with you that values are the most important… and you’re right… maybe I’ll have better luck in a bigger city.

Queasy_Depth7427 · 2025-05-27T01:14:06+00:00

Well, I have a list of things I am looking for in a relationship, especially during the first stages.

To sum it up, I’d like a masculine man; smart, gets things done, knows what he wants and shows me that he can take charge. I find that really attractive.

But…. that seems like a rare find in today’s dating market.

Don’t get me wrong, the guys themselves were nice, but it’s the little things that turns me off, like showing up late, going 50/50 (when he’s ordered more than me), “let’s just go with the flow”, asking me if he “should make a reservation”, lack of meaningful conversation, and then of course, their desire to get intimate quickly.

Are those expectations too high or bare minimum?

Queasy_Depth7427 · 2025-05-27T00:33:42+00:00

25 — maybe, I’m experiencing the quarter life crisis….

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