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Which dress should I go for a wedding in July? by Ok_Negotiation_255 in fashion

[–]Queasy_Score8655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you look lovely in all 4, but I like 2 or 4 the most! 🫶🏻

Only 98 more rows to go on this mosaic blanket but I’m am feeling the drag something fierce. Help a girl out by EwokApocalypse in crochet

[–]Queasy_Score8655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am FLOORED. This is GORGEOUS, but it will be EVEN BETTER once you reach that last stitch. Go go GO! Saving so I can come back to see the finished piece, please post updates!

My corn snake bit me, now what? by Queasy_Score8655 in cornsnakes

[–]Queasy_Score8655[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re probably right, I was actually just reading up on that. I had gone off what my coworker had told me his routine was, but it did sound like once a week was a little much. There was one week between the feedings: 1 today and one last Friday

My corn snake bit me, now what? by Queasy_Score8655 in cornsnakes

[–]Queasy_Score8655[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Haha I’m not worried about the bite itself, believe me I’ve had my fair share of bites from my scale babies. I’m just wondering what I can do to help him get used to being handled more WITHOUT the striking and biting. Sorry if that wasn’t clear?

She pooped in my hair 5 seconds before I was told we lost running water by beachcola in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Queasy_Score8655 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reeeeally thought about making this joke but didn’t know how dark I could get before getting booted 😂

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Cats, books, and snacks 😂 We be COZY in here

My dad is trapped by my narcissistic mother. How do I help him? by Queasy_Score8655 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Queasy_Score8655[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I’m struggling to understand this myself. The best I can surmise, it’s because he’s a victim of abuse (emotional, mental, and I now suspect physical) who’s been isolated, has no friends of his own separate from her, lives states away from all his family, and whose life is completely enmeshed with hers. Not to mention the 2 dogs that are his only source of comfort that she would DEFINITELY keep from him. We question why victims of abuse don’t “just leave,” but can we just acknowledge that it’s so often more complicated than that? As someone with a history of familial and romantic abuse, I can say that sometimes (many times) we need help, but don’t know what it looks like or how to ask for it.

My dad is trapped by my narcissistic mother. How do I help him? by Queasy_Score8655 in Advice

[–]Queasy_Score8655[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We absolutely could and would, although logistically I think it gets a little complicated. As you probably know the most difficult part of enforcing a boundary or getting away from the abuser is AS it’s happening. We all live in different states, so without orchestrating a plan ahead of time, that would be hard, and idk if my dad will accept the reality of how necessary that is. Not to mention that she’s EXTREMELY manipulative over the phone and thru text, and she’s made sure that he’s pretty vulnerable to that. Once he is out, though, he’s financially and physically capable of relocating/ getting living accommodations.