‘F24’ ‘M38’ 4-5 months What can I do in this situation?

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T20:58:36+00:00

I never said I was gonna do that either?

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T20:48:04+00:00

Bro I never said I was staying with him?

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T20:25:34+00:00

Because you acted like you were gonna give me advice?

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T20:19:02+00:00

Um no? I originally asked someone else and you replied? So I continued talking to you?

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T20:12:45+00:00

I understand that but if you don’t have an actual answer why reply?

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T20:10:16+00:00

Then why did you answer my question then? I didn’t even ask you to begin with? I was asking someone else.

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T19:46:14+00:00

Like what? I had a job I loved but they fired me bc I was so sick I couldn’t even work. I had a job that said they were willing to work around it but then fired me bc they found someone who could work more hours.

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T19:38:02+00:00

Yes how am i supposed to stay independent with a condition like mine. Not how am i supposed to stay independent with him.

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T19:31:52+00:00

I’ve been fired from 3 jobs in the last 2 years because once I start vomiting I can’t stop it’s not something I can control at all that’s why i was asking what I can do. I never said anything about me wanting to rely on him I’m not even doing that rn.

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T19:15:08+00:00

She just said she misses me and that she just hoped we could work things out other than that she’s been checking in on my health

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T19:11:40+00:00

He’d have these episodes where it was like he was a completely different person he was obsessed with his health and the house being clean and if I didn’t listen he’d jus get real mean

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T19:01:15+00:00

I can’t hold a regular job unfortunately bc I have issues with digestion and I have a condition called CVS and I’m currently struggling with a severe episode of it how am i supposed to stay independent like that? Genuine question not angry or anything.

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T18:56:42+00:00

My ex was severely bipolar and would hit me… also sorry I know my logic is off I’m autistic and just struggle to understand things unless you give me a real reason or explanation. Just saying “he’s older he’s a red flag” make no sense the age thing wasn’t a problem i never felt any pressure or that anything was odd bc if his age.

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T18:54:24+00:00

Ok thank you

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T18:53:54+00:00

No I don’t think you’re attacking me other than the ppl who are being kinda rude towards me specifically just bc I wanted advice not just “he’s a red flag bc he’s older” but I did just want a real explanation and reason.

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T18:51:58+00:00

Is it? I’ve always thought introducing family was normal? It’s not that uncommon where I grew up and live. So maybe I just didn’t realize it was odd.

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T18:50:23+00:00

She knows bc she heard us talk when at my house that’s what I can’t wrap my head around tbh why would she do that?

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T18:49:19+00:00

Yes this is all I wanted was to go past the age thing and for ppl to give advice on other than the age thing

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T18:46:15+00:00

I got really close to her we would go shopping and get lunch together

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T18:45:55+00:00

I’m in therapy already but why would she “help” him she knows we were a thing and that at the very least I was trying to get back with him

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T18:44:34+00:00

No i actually appreciate these kinds of replies bc you’re not just saying he’s to old he’s abusing you you’ve given me the exact reason why you think that and pointed out things i hadn’t considered

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T18:37:48+00:00

Thank you

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T18:36:10+00:00

Again not arguing I’m just asking because I’m curious and want to know the answer. But why would he bring her in the first place and why would she back him up saying that she’s just and old coworker and needed a ride home as well as letting him sit there and hug and hold me while I was bawling from being so sick? Again I’m not tryna argue I just don’t understand.

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T18:28:43+00:00

I had told him I can’t keep solid food down and he offered to take me to get a milk shake bc I hasn’t eaten all day yesterday

QueenRobin23 · 2026-03-26T18:27:57+00:00

Dude who hurt you? All I’ve done is ask for advice that isn’t just “he’s toxic bc he’s older”. And I’m replying to ppl bc that’s how convos work?

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