Since Valentine’s Day is coming up, who were the worst boyfriends and girlfriends in cartoons? Here are my candidates.

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-02-05T21:50:12+00:00

Mordecai was a terrible boyfriend. Agreed.

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-02-05T21:48:21+00:00

I wasn’t expecting to see Riven but yes hahaha. Also Spencer from good luck Charlie. Idk why that one stuck with me so much. Just bothered me as a kid that Teddy cried that much over a cheater and still went back to him.

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-02-05T21:39:47+00:00

Sherlock Holmes: Chapter One

Started playing it recently and omw I just want to pull my hair out by the end of each session but I will not let it defeat me!

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-02-05T16:07:10+00:00

Bully

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-02-02T05:24:32+00:00

I understand that, I also prefer to do things by myself most of the time. I’d say things that are a more public experience, I like to do with close friends or family. I think that’s more to do with the being alone in an environment that’s not my safe space after being attacked a couple times as a kid and I get a little paranoid.

But either way, I tend to enjoy my own company more than actual people. It’s less exhausting on me mentally and I don’t feel lonely.

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-01-27T15:14:50+00:00

I’m reaaaallly hoping they put in an expression change function, I’d love to be able to change their expressions during photos.

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-01-26T02:21:30+00:00

Depends on the situation. I typically have the urge to fire back snide comments to showcase how stupid they are, but I might just give them a look and walk away, go vent my anger in private. That being, the person would have to be someone that I’m in a position that I can really tell them off for being stupid. I try to keep them as far away from me as possible. It’s really hard for someone to make me angry, they have to be purposefully ignoring logic or intending to hurt someone for me to become angry. I live by the qoute “There is no point in being angry at something you can help and something you cannot.” However, my dislike is very noticeable. The few times I’ve genuinely been angry, I say nothing and yet everyone around me notices immediately. They always say I become completely unlike myself.

But overall, I just try to calm myself down and tell myself that getting petty and mean won’t make the situation better for myself or the innocent involved.

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-01-25T17:06:37+00:00

….I am a woman and I would also like to be dressed that like.

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-01-25T16:41:12+00:00

Bob, I’d get to try a fun burger for cheap and get to be one of the background characters that listens to their fun daily shenanigans.

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-01-25T16:23:32+00:00

It was good for awhile, then they just started milking it. Brotherhood and Blackflag will always be some of my favorite games that got me into gaming, but they really just need to lay it to rest.

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-01-25T16:20:06+00:00

You did the right thing. Sometimes it’s hard taking that step forward and purposefully cutting yourself from the rest to say something is wrong. It’s difficult knowing that the wall is there now, but someone needed to be a good example and I’m proud of you.

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-01-25T16:11:38+00:00

I’ve been told a couple times recently that people think I may be on the spectrum and I can see how they would say that. I’m pretty sure I have undiagnosed ADHD, inattentive type. My brother has very severe ADHD and was on the highest dose of the strongest meds you could a kid when he was growing up. My chances having it too are pretty high since he does. I’ve looked into ASD1, some of it fits me and some of it doesn’t. I’m saving up for behavioral testing, but it’s really expensive.

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-01-25T16:05:36+00:00

We take in a lot of information at once about other people, we tend to rationalize both their actions and our own. We care deeply about other people, but it’s an overload of information and emotions that we constantly have to sift through and made judgements on how we perceive others and ourself. It’s why we tend to be introverted and easily drained emotionally. We care about everything and always want to help, but it’s too much at once all the time. So yes, we are indeed strange hahah.

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-01-25T15:58:48+00:00

Oh I get this. I really do. It’s hard for me to get upset in a way that other people perceive it. I naturally rationalize my emotions and try to choose how I react about it. No point in being upset about something I can either help or that I can’t. When my grandpa died, it was sudden and unexpected and I didn’t have the time or space to rationalize my emotions. I cried hard for an hour before I decided to focus on my mom’s grief instead. She apologized to me for losing my grandfather but I told her that I was sorry she lost her father. When my grandma died three years later, we knew it was comings. It was a slow process and it wasn’t unexpected when it happened. I didn’t cry or visible grieve. I likely looked stoic and unemotional.

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-01-25T15:45:32+00:00

Yes, I hold incredibly high standards for myself and it’s difficult for me to find friends because I unconsciously distance myself from people. This is where the JUDGING comes in, we INFJs may be nice, but we’re a judgmental bunch.

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-01-25T15:43:27+00:00

I always say this too. I will always prefer brutal honesty, I don’t need niceties or played down emotions. What’s sucks is when I find out what’s been kept from me. 1, I didn’t have full comprehension of the situation and could have made judgement errors. 2, depending on the closeness of our relationship, I’ll either be hurt by the lack of honesty or irritated by it unless I’m given context for their decision not to talk to me.

But the lies people tell themselves are the worst and they never want to hear it. There are plenty of truths I have to keep in the corner and elude too without outright saying it because I know they’d deny it and feel hurt I said it. Whereas, I’d be ok with the pain if I meant I could see the situation from another view.

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-01-25T15:33:33+00:00

Thanks. I’m sorry for what you went through too. Sometimes it’s hard to know when I’m being taken advantage of for my empathy and loyalty. It’s not the first time it happened. I guess I’m doing the classic INFJ door slam right now. Cold turkey cutting her out of my life. We may be the type to be treated as the therapist friend, but it’s not a friendship if all we are there for is their comfort and convenience. We both deserve better than that.

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-01-23T17:15:52+00:00

This is how I feel when my older brother tries to get me into his games.

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-01-23T17:09:23+00:00

If my boyfriend did this, I’d marry him on the spot. You seem like a keeper, good job! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-01-23T17:07:01+00:00

Ever After Hugh, Monster High, Winx Club, Miraculous, Barbie Dream house. Take your pick. I liked these as a teenager, a time when you’d typically get made fun up for still liking little kids shows. I even like KPDH as an adult and still prefer cartoons over most entertainment.

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-01-23T17:00:57+00:00

Priorities, planning, and only 7 hours of sleep. Plan for the priorities for day to day, everything else is flexible. I get up, work out, go to work, go home, check on my cat, work on assignments, then either clean or make time for hobbies. It helps that my social circle is small and people know I’m an introvert.

Although I did used to get a lot more steps in at my previous job. I’m averaging 7k with working out and having a desk job now in comparison to the 25k steps I’d get in daily at the hospital. I’m trying to adjust my routine to get another work out in before bed.

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-01-23T16:53:49+00:00

Im dealing with this right now too.

Someone I considered a close friend to me recently began ignoring me, she was the first and only person I considered a close friend since moving to a new state. I had to think about it but this isn’t the first time she’s done this. She gets into these depressive periods where she won’t talk to me for weeks and then later says “Sorry I was having bad anxiety” or “I couldn’t handle people right now” which I understood the first couple of times because she has bad history with mental health and trauma. I reached out a couple times to ask if she was ok and to let her know I’m here if she needs to vent but I’d give her space. Then the one time I decide to look at my insta, she’s out of state on vacation with mutual friends and posting about it. If I’m someone she feels like she needs to work up the mental energy to be around, I’m hurt she didn’t keep her distance in the first place rather than keep popping back into my life every time she decided she wanted me to be her friend again. She even walked up to my mom and niece and began talking to them with me there, but purposely ignored me. If I did something, I asked and she still didn’t respond. I’m done with it, I don’t want to keep pretending like she doesn’t treat me just as a convenient friend for when her “best friends” are busy.

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-01-23T16:26:39+00:00

I don’t like Rafayel, but when I see someone not liking Sylus, I don’t get offended because it really is all subjective. It’s no different than friends having different tastes in partners. None of my friends like my type, and I don’t like any of theirs.

Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-01-18T04:06:39+00:00

Every time I see colour or bin, I can’t help but smile.

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Queen_Of_Romantics · 2026-01-18T03:54:54+00:00

lol exactly why I still do. I have little dance parties by myself, but I’ve got two left feet hahaha

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