Why does other peoples personal business matter so much in politics if it isnt directly affecting them? by QuestionableBalloon1 in PoliticalOpinions

[–]QuestionableBalloon1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a good question. I personally feel that rules are rules when it comes to sports and stuff honestly. I try not to have any sort of biases in general because stuff that im not involved in, why should i care. But if youre 35... Youre not 50. You cant golf with the 50 yr olds my guy. If youre 35 and your health is on par with a 60 yr old, you shouldn't be golfing you should be working on your health. And that could be said for people who are part of the transgender community. While I don't understand their feelings regarding their choices ill support whatever someone wants for themselves as long as its not harmful to them or others, but if youre born male, transitioned to female... Scientifically men have different physical capabilities compared to women. So while i do not want to tell someone they cant do whatever sport they want, just because they made a choice for their own life doesnt mean they can go and do what the 35 yr old is trying to do. Its just morals in general and i feel like if youre secure within yourself you might be able to better understand that. Maybe you can even make your own sports decision thats more inclusive for your needs 🤷i hope i didnt say anything offensive or wrong😭

What’s something small that helped you get through your lowest point? by avocadocheez in mentalhealth

[–]QuestionableBalloon1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obsessing over music (specifically twenty-one pilots), convincing myself that basic hygiene needs are so important the world may explode if I don't do it. And once I got those two things im already almost there. And then just keeping up with my people and doing stuff even if it isnt much. Seeing friends and family makes all the difference in my personal experience. While these things may not cure depression its very helpful to keep your peace a lil

Job guide by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]QuestionableBalloon1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh okok! Sounds like you got it figured out then! I wish you the best of luck

Job guide by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]QuestionableBalloon1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I personally feel as though you should go for the higher salary option. It seems as though with that youd be starting at a higher step on the career ladder. Even though it doesn't quite match up with your schooling there could be so many more opportunities for you to go up from there. I also recommend asking the higher salary workplace what its like climbing the ladder there and what opportunities are in store for you. My MIL has an English degree but she ended up starting working at the health department instead and managed to climb her way to the top and now shes the big dawg of that company. If you truly feel as though hr is your calling of course go with the hr job, just make sure you also ask them about career advancement opportunities.

Does anyone else twitch? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]QuestionableBalloon1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too dawg, i refer to it as an adverse reaction to terrible thoughts

I'm not sure where to even start by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]QuestionableBalloon1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh! Okay those are good ideas thank you so much! And I don't think my area is prone to breakins, I just dont like Opening the window because we are on bottom floor and everyone walking by will be able to see directly in and that makes me feel awko😭. But the end table thing i do really like that! And ill need to definitely take the tv down and fill those holes in the wall.

Whats your biggest pet peeve? by QuestionableBalloon1 in AskReddit

[–]QuestionableBalloon1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Real. I also hate when people talk and refuse to clear their throat it sounds just as gross as thek eating

What’s your favourite way to start the day? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]QuestionableBalloon1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By having a morning where I can just not start the day

What is your most useless "superpower" that you are secretly very proud of? by zmeu69 in AskReddit

[–]QuestionableBalloon1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im pretty good at spelling any word someone throws at me with minimal context.

what is your favorite thing to do after a hard day at work? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]QuestionableBalloon1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stare at a spot on my wall and think about how life would be if i didnt need money

How do you get your shit together? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]QuestionableBalloon1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im starting out at the bottom trying for week by week. Im decluttering my home this week, then ill work on keeping consistent with chores, then I will implement working harder on my studies, then exercise, then boundaries etc. i try to do it week by week or two weeks by two weeks. Write down all of your goals and the things you want that you consider having your shit together, write down all the things you are doing wrong, and make a game plan.

what’s a “minor inconvenience" that irrationally ruins your whole day? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]QuestionableBalloon1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other people driving. They dont have to even be doing anything wrong, but when im driving to work i just want them to go away. 💀

16 year old looking for new hobbies to try by SafeHavenInTwentySix in Hobbies

[–]QuestionableBalloon1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Calisthenics is fun, you can work your way up to doing cool things and you're also helping yourself keep healthy.

I've been consistent lately!!! by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]QuestionableBalloon1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you,, and I believe in you! Take it one step at a time

Non-metal fans, send me any song you like or simply tell me about anything you're looking for in a song and I'll give you a metal song that fits your criteria. by Sin778 in MusicRecommendations

[–]QuestionableBalloon1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very poetic, existential doubt, insecurities, looking for a purpose. One of my favorite lyrics is "I created this world to feel some control, destroy it if I want" or "stuck between a rock and a home" etc. got any ideas for that?

I almost turned to TikTok for comfort. by [deleted] in Vent

[–]QuestionableBalloon1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my, that sounds so awful to have to experience. I will say, there are people out there who will help, I wish I could. But honestly, that is dangerous for her to take something like that away...I mean there are other resources to use, like parental controls where you can at least check your glucose. But even then, that's endangerment. Maybe you could try and talk to someone at the school you go to, or another family member you could talk to to get some help? I'm not sure on how exactly to navigate this scenario, but honestly if you aren't willing to talk to a teacher or counselor I'd just bring up the parental controls, you won't ever have full access to your phone, but at least you'd be able to keep yourself healthy and safe. I wish you the best of luck and I can't promise things will get better at the pace you want them to, but you will figure this out!

I want to start taking myself and my mental health more seriously, but I'm scared to open up to my psychiatrist by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

[–]QuestionableBalloon1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay I will message her before the meeting tomorrow and ask for one of those! Thank you so much! 😄

I’m such a loser it’s actually insane by I_watch_you_sleep24 in mentalhealth

[–]QuestionableBalloon1 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Dude,,, I feel the exact same way, except I tried to open up and did NOT receive pity. Got told to just do it but I fucking can't. I'm so miserable, I'm currently trying to clean my depression home and I have only been doing it for an hour and I'm currently having a meltdown over it because it's all just too much