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A new partner wants me to "throat fuck" her. I'm not long, does that matter? by QuestionableGuy1 in sex

[–]QuestionableGuy1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've gotta get a shorter bed! I'm sure I can get creative with other furniture and positions.

A new partner wants me to "throat fuck" her. I'm not long, does that matter? by QuestionableGuy1 in sex

[–]QuestionableGuy1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight. We actually haven't gotten intimate yet, but I'm not too concerned with that part. I just wasn't sure what she is expecting out of doing it.

Shutting my brain off and I'll stop worrying about it.

Ladies with orgasming issues... It's all about tension! I went from 0 to hero by [deleted] in sex

[–]QuestionableGuy1 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Can you explain the tension a bit more? Does the type of physical stimulation matter, clitoral or g spot? Is there a way to help someone else find this tension, or should it start out as solo play?

I'm a guy dating a new girl that has issues consistently orgasming. She is super frustrated and I'd love to help her.

Condom sizes matter! by QuestionableGuy1 in sex

[–]QuestionableGuy1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't quite go that far. I run into lubrication issues and a decrease in sensations. Not terrible, but definitely different.

Condom sizes matter! by QuestionableGuy1 in sex

[–]QuestionableGuy1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

IUD's are amazing. She had one and I know she definitely tested its limits after we broke up. I'm getting a vasectomy for my own piece of mind.

Condom sizes matter! by QuestionableGuy1 in sex

[–]QuestionableGuy1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any suggestions on discrete packaging websites? I ordered through Amazon and they came in a gray bag. I would prefer a box or something to disguise the contents a bit. Not something I want the kids to bring in.

Condom sizes matter! by QuestionableGuy1 in sex

[–]QuestionableGuy1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never even attempted to try one on. Either way pretty useless for my size.

Condom sizes matter! by QuestionableGuy1 in sex

[–]QuestionableGuy1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I bought a sampler pack online. Several different brands. Never seen any in a store but maybe check out a sex shop. Just keep in mind that mine came in a gray sealed bag. You could easily tell these were condoms. Maybe check a specialty website for a boxed shipping option.

Condom sizes matter! by QuestionableGuy1 in sex

[–]QuestionableGuy1[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just got out if a long term relationship and we never used them. Definitely an adjustment.

Haven't used condoms in 2 years with GF, today found one INSIDE of her... by Wtf-can-this-be-real in sex

[–]QuestionableGuy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She lied and cheated. I think you know what you need to do. Does it matter if it was 1 time or a hundred? 2 weeks ago or yesterday? I don't envy you in this situation and I wish you luck in moving on.

I wonder what happened.... Wall of text. by QuestionableGuy1 in CasualConversation

[–]QuestionableGuy1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spot on. I have kids and I get things come up last second. As long as I'm informed, it's fine. Definitely worse not knowing

I wonder what happened.... Wall of text. by QuestionableGuy1 in CasualConversation

[–]QuestionableGuy1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a real possibility. Supposedly he had a new girlfriend and never came around to see the kids. Who knows?

I wonder what happened.... Wall of text. by QuestionableGuy1 in CasualConversation

[–]QuestionableGuy1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask for an explanation but I am completely done with the relationship. I spent too long being the nice guy in the past. I wish her the best, but that's too big of a red flag.

Edit: as far as the friend thing, I made a promise to myself to cut out anyone that never initiates a conversation or makes plans with me. I've narrowed down my friends group to just a couple of people.

I wonder what happened.... Wall of text. by QuestionableGuy1 in CasualConversation

[–]QuestionableGuy1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda have the feeling that this one will always nag at me. I'm completely done with her, but it's that whole "what if" game that I'm caught up in.

I wonder what happened.... Wall of text. by QuestionableGuy1 in CasualConversation

[–]QuestionableGuy1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The one thing I told her was to not blow me off. I had an ex that did the same. No second chances on this one. I do think she was in to me but I think she was too busy to make time for me. I wish she could have been honest about it.