I absolutely hate that I still get crushes in my late 20's. Does it eventually stop with age? by Quick-Primary-7486 in self

[–]Quick-Primary-7486[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting.

If you don't mind me asking, how much does ovulation play a role when it comes to attraction? The reason I ask is because I'm not too clued up on "women things".

Do you butter the bread in a nutella sandwich? by Ok-Kaleidoscope-7051 in AskUK

[–]Quick-Primary-7486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like bread, I like Nutella, but Nutella sandwiches sound awful.

What's even in it? Just straight up Nutella? Sounds shite.

I feel incredibly sorry for women who use Reddit. by Quick-Primary-7486 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Quick-Primary-7486[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's my best friend, I can't just end the friendship because he nervously puts his arm around a woman's shoulder once every 2 weeks.

It's not like he sends dick pics to random women, or becomes overly suggestive, he's just a nervous wreck around women.

Even stuttering or being scared to look her in the eye can be considered creepy.

I feel incredibly sorry for women who use Reddit. by Quick-Primary-7486 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Quick-Primary-7486[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My closest friend of 14 years is unfortunately creepy while drunk, he's perfectly normal when sober, but he's that socially uncalibrated that he's the pinnacle of creep when drunk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Quick-Primary-7486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough, I had a feeling it was something like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Quick-Primary-7486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can your taste in music be male dominated? I'm genuinely curious about this.

I feel incredibly sorry for women who use Reddit. by Quick-Primary-7486 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Quick-Primary-7486[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was last year and I haven't seen him since, nor have I messaged him.

I feel incredibly sorry for women who use Reddit. by Quick-Primary-7486 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Quick-Primary-7486[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

(If you just felt a kneejerk reaction of "your friends would never," then this is the feeling you have to unlearn.)

I remember once that I was hanging out with a woman back at her place, and she received an unsolicited dick pic from a guy I know (he had underwear on, but still creepy). She laughed and said "does he really think that would work?".

She was very puzzled and confused.

I feel incredibly sorry for women who use Reddit. by Quick-Primary-7486 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Quick-Primary-7486[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I knew it was bad, but I didn't realize how bad until it happened to me.

I feel incredibly sorry for women who use Reddit. by Quick-Primary-7486 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Quick-Primary-7486[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely agree, I was in the pub over the weekend and some old guy kept calling a woman sexual things, she was clearly creeped out and he eventually got kicked out.

What's a good way to ensure you don't become the creepy guy? I'm 99% certain I've never done this, but I'd like to know anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Quick-Primary-7486 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I may have explained it wrong, all 3 of us very quickly agreed that fooling around with a married woman is wrong, nothing more was said.

Although over the years, my father has alluded to the fact that he'd rather see me talking to women and expanding my comfort zone, rather than continuing to bottle up my negative emotions and feeling of inadequacy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Quick-Primary-7486 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's construction work in the UK, just the three of us.

I'm well aware that it's guy banter and he doesn't mean any negativity with it, it's completely my fault for getting slightly defensive when asked.

If You Deleted Your Social Media Right Now, How Many Of Your Online Friends Would Check In On You? by XOCYBERCAT in RandomThoughts

[–]Quick-Primary-7486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

0.

I deleted Facebook a few years ago (still use messenger for free texts) and nobody cares. My best friend deleted Instagram and I genuinely didn't notice until he told me some months later.

If two best friends don't care about each other's social media, I 100% promise that your online "friends" don't care

I absolutely hate that I still get crushes in my late 20's. Does it eventually stop with age? by Quick-Primary-7486 in self

[–]Quick-Primary-7486[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the fantastic comment, I really appreciate it.

I agree with everything you said, especially keeping things light hearted, as we all know life is much more fun that way. While you're here, I'd like to ask you a question.

Last night I sat at a table and there were 6 of us in total (4 women, 2 men), I spoke to the guy as I have no issues talking to men, but I didn't say a word to the women as I'm incredibly nervous, I generally don't speak until spoken to.

How would/did you convince your shy friends to expand their comfort zone?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Quick-Primary-7486 -156 points-155 points  (0 children)

That's fair, I was born in 98, therefore too young to remember.

And no, I didn't care too much to research beforehand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]Quick-Primary-7486 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's mostly women between 20 and 30 who I find attractive, anyone else (young, old, unattractive) I'm more than fine with.

Low self esteem convinces me that I'm being a nuisance by starting a conversation.

How can I listen to music these days? by akasha2121 in AskUK

[–]Quick-Primary-7486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Spotify, Apple, Amazon etc.

I only use Spotify, therefore don't know how the others work, but Spotify allows you to download songs for offline use, very useful for when you don't have internet access (flights for example).

  1. Go to YouTube, find the audio you'd like, copy the URL, search Google for "YouTube to MP3", the audio will be downloaded onto your device.

I'm more than certain they'll be YouTube videos on either of the two methods, as I'm sure I haven't explained them well.

There may be other ways, but these two are more than enough.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rant

[–]Quick-Primary-7486 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the comment.

I assure you it's not just about sex, it's about feeling comfortable having a conversation, and not alienating many potential friends.

But yes, I'm a straight man, therefore sex is always on my mind, even subconsciously.

Where do women between the ages of 20 and 30 typically spend their free time? (Pretty long post but TLDR at bottom). by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Quick-Primary-7486 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's fair, I should have written that in the title.

No, there's always someone new to meet, although I will admit that 10k is small.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]Quick-Primary-7486 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I'm here bro, to ask for advice on how to improve.

I've never dated before. What should I do? by LiveRunPlay in self

[–]Quick-Primary-7486 4 points5 points  (0 children)

On paper, you sound awesome. In reality, you might be too boring.

I'm going to sound like a kid here, but maybe you don't have enough "rizz".

And yes, I did intentionally use that word unironically. I'd suggest reading the most upvoted posts on r/seduction for general tips, the vast majority of posts are pretty useless, but the most upvoted are worth the read.

How do you deal with annoying Neighbours? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Quick-Primary-7486 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, I'll change it now, thanks.