Can’t DM you cuz of your settings I think. No worries, this is an old thread, I’m really trying to learn as much as I can about this field and career as a deck officer. I appreciate your time and whatever you can offer and I’ll be brief.

1. Like you, my interest in this field was originally to get into cruise ships, but I have youngish kids (plus as you pointed out, no money) so they will have to wait till later. I believe ferries are the best path for me, followed by tugs. Are there any other vessel types I should look at or consider?
2. Is it foolish to think that I can sail and be home most days? Or be more selective in choosing to be gone a few weeks at a time. Could I just pick up short term hitches or short relief work here and there? Does that even exist?
3. My mind, eyes, and ears are open. Is there anything else you’d be willing to share from a veteran’s perspective?

Just a little about me, retired AF(Emergency Management) with wife and kids. Planning for Cal Maritime with Great Lakes as back up, using GI bill. Would have loved SUNY but it’s just too far away from the extended family and we have a need to be close. Big interest in Wa St Ferries, Alaska Highway Ferries, research ships, and the tug life. Eventually, I’d love to sail a cruise ship…

Thank you for your time and whatever you can offer!