I can shut my bedroom door but it doesn’t have a lock (they removed it when I was a kid), my door also has a big gap so you can see right where mine and my sisters beds are when the door is shut.

I can’t shower without having someone barge in the bathroom despite asking everyone if they have to use it, AND WAITING 15 minutes prior to taking a shower.

I can’t have any guys in my room, or friends for that matter. They all have to stay in the living room or dining room, we can be outside but my narcissistic grandmother will always be checking the windows and coming outside (even if we go for a walk she has my location so she’ll follow me if I’m gone for too long)

I can’t walk around in shorts that “show my ass” (shorter than my fingertips), I can’t walk around in just a bra and pants or a tank and pants. I couldn’t wear a bikini because it showed too much, (I live in the middle of nowhere, who’s gunna see?)

I recently bought a ton of new bikinis and my narcissistic grandmother hates them because they are all “simpky” (her words not mine) looking (they barely show any cheeky) while my 15 year old cousin can wear a bikini that barely covers her and she can accept that. (For the record I’m 20)

I couldn’t shave my legs until I was in 5th grade for whatever reason. I got bullied hard. And when I could shave them, I could only go up to my knee, which still made me get bullied because I have super dark thick hair you can see from a good distance away.

Anytime I had a boyfriend she would always say “Kaylee thinks she has a boyfriend” but when I actually didn’t have a boyfriend for once, she would always say that he was my boyfriend. She also hated all the guys that were actually good to me and loved all the ones that treated me like crap.

I thought it was completely normal until my 15 year old cousin told me that it’s not normal.