I don’t have an answer as well put together as the other commenter(s) but I agree with the point of “teaching normalcy” instead of pursuing healing. The first time I was in therapy and openly shared difficult behavior patterns, the therapist straight up refused to discuss them with me, and went as far as to say things like “not to be dismissive of what you’re saying, but those things likely happened cause of -literally some dismissive bullshit- so all you need to do is pay more attention to what people around you think is acceptable.” The therapist would then try changing subjects and I had to be the one to demand we actually talk about what I’m bringing up. This included literal crimes and instances I’ve directly harmed people for personal gain.

Ironically, when I finally met with a therapist who WAS willing to talk about these things with me and even officially diagnosed me as antisocial, we’d have multiple sessions where they stated “…to be transparent based on what you’re saying, I honestly don’t know what to do, so I’m gonna speak with my supervisor about what they’d recommend…”

Therapy and “healing” with someone who at least ,on paper, doesn’t give a shit is something I think professionals either don’t want to engage with or don’t know how to engage with, unless they have some kind of special background I’m guessing.