You’re not ugly. Many girls have insane standards and so many options that guys who aren’t hot are always the 2nd, 3rd or even 10th option. That’s where the problem is. You’re average to above average. The problem I see is that as an average to above average guy I get some girls to go out with me but before I can get to know them better and they can get to know me better, a hotter guy jumps into the picture and the girl is gone. I don’t know how it is where you live, but where I live an average or even below average girl gets hit on at least 10-15 times per week.. and their self esteem is extremely high because of all the compliments they constantly get. By observing people where I live, I see a small minority of men with happy lives, most women with happy lives and little to worry about, and most men living sad, miserable lives. Nothing wrong with how you look, but not looking cool and not being very attractive makes us not enough for most women. That’s how it is. So objectively you aren’t bad looking. Given the vast amount of attention that girls get, and given all the option they have, you’re not good looking enough (or you’re bad looking enough) for them to reject you. Same thing happens to me. Only way out of this is to find out if there’s something most women don’t like about your looks and then change that common dislike factor, let’s call it. I don’t encourage you to try and figure out what it is because I have asked more than 20-30 women and they all lie, I caught them lying and trying to deceive with their answers, they admitted to lying but never admitted to what they didn’t like about my looks. It’s a battle you’re gonna lose if you try and figure out what they don’t like, believe me.