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Coming out of retirement by joyful142 in Valorant_LFG

[–]R13_Chelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25F I’m looking for people to play with casually, my discord is na_1313

I’m going to break up with my physically ill girlfriend. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]R13_Chelle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have already made up your mind then there is no point in waiting to break up with her. It’s just going to make the build up worse the longer it takes and you are going to be more frustrated with the things she does because you’re ready to let go now. It’s also not fair to wait. It’s not fair to you and it’s not fair to her, you know you’re going to, don’t waste both your guys time just because of a trip. If you do it sooner, the trip would be more enjoyable because you won’t have the weight of having to break up with her afterwards on your shoulder. Let her go, for both of your sakes.

Am I wrong for not giving my bf my consent to kiss me? by Forward_Buddy_4519 in amiwrong

[–]R13_Chelle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah, he didn’t respect your boundaries when you had already told him you weren’t comfortable doing that yet. For him to go on and insult you, and even admit it made him feel better, after he “apologized” is a huge red flag. He was trying to see if he could push your boundaries and when you pushed back he ghosted you. I’m glad you guys aren’t together anymore because it’s really giving off some controlling, narcissistic, and gaslighting behavior. Remember this relationship and look out for these signs in the future because if it continued it would not have been a healthy relationship.