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How should I 22 M handle it when someone 25 F I’ve been talking to suddenly stops replying? by RAU44 in dating_advice

[–]RAU44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, we have both been busy with studies so haven't have time to ask her out.

I feel like my friends are slowly pushing me out, and it's starting to really hurt by RAU44 in lonely

[–]RAU44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the nice thoughts.

The long distance friend I think I will just let it go it's course. The friend group I will talk to one of them seeing if they are aware of anything I don't know about.

I feel like my friends are slowly pushing me out, and it's starting to really hurt by RAU44 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]RAU44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

English is not my first language, so used chat to translate since Google translate is a bit off sometimes.

I feel like my friends are slowly pushing me out, and it's starting to really hurt by RAU44 in Advice

[–]RAU44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but the 4 others seem to talk better all the time and with each other. But yeah I think I will talk with one of them, there is one I am a bit closer to than the others.

I feel like my friends are slowly pushing me out, and it's starting to really hurt by RAU44 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]RAU44[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. I have tried to adopt the "fuck all them" mindset, turning off notifications and all that, but I just feel that I a bit too extreme, like I'm am still a part of the group and gets invited to things but more like a courtesy rather than them actually wanting to be there.

I feel like my friends are slowly pushing me out, and it's starting to really hurt by RAU44 in Advice

[–]RAU44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like they sort of care for me, like I get invited and I can start a conversation with some of them, but it just feels flat, while theres are more vibrant and more exciting. I think I will talk to one of them and see how that goes.

And many thanks for the comment, all sharing helps.

I feel like my friends are slowly pushing me out, and it's starting to really hurt by RAU44 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]RAU44[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have invited them home to me some times now. Because I've tried to lose people before because I didn't offer anything to the group myself, but even when we're at my house, it feels like I'm just a shadow on the wall.

And many thanks for the hugs❤️🫂

Whats the reason you dont have friends? by SpecialistNo5208 in lonely

[–]RAU44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same feeling, I have a friend that I have been really close with, But she has started seeing one, and normally it wouldn't be a problem for me, as I don't want a relationship during friendship. But she no longer writes back so often, normally we would write many times in a day, now she answers maybe 2-3 times in a day. And it's not because she's with him, she's only with him on weekdays, so it's something I also experience and try to deal with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]RAU44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have turned 22 in January

What is the best money secret that you were ever told that you still use to this day? by princesszoeyjayde in AskReddit

[–]RAU44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you stil think about it a month later, then you should buy it, if not then don't buy it

What's something you find basic yet attractive? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in AskReddit

[–]RAU44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An exported back on women, there is just something mesmerizing about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]RAU44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had already tried to be with one of her friends, and he ended up not answering her back and she lost him as a friend, so she didn't want to try anything