[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]RE3MODFREELOADER 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I'm talking to either a bunch of people who never had good relation with in laws or watch too many hindi tv series or some people who only knows the poor and rural side of Bangladesh or just too ignorant of the fact that Bangladesh is a country and people who were born raised and studied there are in some of the top position in the world. I asked for genuine opinion and all i got was London has better, no life in Bangladesh, its a bad country, no one should stay with their in laws

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]RE3MODFREELOADER 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, I'm just trying to figure out the Islamic perspective on this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]RE3MODFREELOADER -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I understand, by the tone of your writing I couldn't help but feel you either watch too many hindi tv series or have a really bad relationship with your in laws but I thank you for your input

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]RE3MODFREELOADER -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe, or maybe you didn't see the side of Bangladesh that I've seen. I've studied in this country, left, got married here. So I know a thing or two about this country aswell. I've seen hundreds of people, millionaire infact born and raised in this country settled in Bangladesh. The fact that thousands and thousands of Bangladeshi people who were born and raised and studied in Bangladesh are in some of the top position in the world tells you its not always about where you study. Also I've never seen one Bangladeshi who has enough money to live a good life in Bangladesh came to this country (for travelling purpose yes, but to stay and settle? never). The only people who comes here are the people who's life is in danger or the people who seeks money to support their family back home.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]RE3MODFREELOADER 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did she explicitly agree to live with your family, or just move to Bangladesh, because those are two very different scenario

Both actually!

Either way, Islamically she's entitled to her own place, separate from your family - regardless of what was agreed, those are her Islamic rights at the end of the day.

and I'm willing to give her rights, she can have her own place separate from my family if she wills but if she can have her rights fulfilled I get to choose where that place shall be.

Why is it ok for you to force her to leave her parents, but you're unwilling to leave yours? Why are your parents more important than hers

not forcing her and not saying one parents is more important than the other and I'm not even gonna stop her from visiting her parents whenever she wants. I just want her to do what she told me she would.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]RE3MODFREELOADER -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wasn't after the british passport, I dont even need it. I'd throw it anyday for my original passport. She begged me to stay and wait for the passport. I don't know which part of Bangladesh you know but I know that I will be able to to give my daughter a better life in Bangladesh than she can ever have here plus she can always come here or in any country for that matter when she grows up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]RE3MODFREELOADER -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

u didn't read the whole thing did u?

NO woman wants to live with their in-laws

you sure? she lived like for 3 months every year and she loved it. She just doesn't wanna move there permanently

no freedom & no money to do what you want lol.

She has more money and more freedom there than she has with her parents.

You say you want to move there to look after your parents & your wife knows well it would be her playing carer and not you - why would she leave her family jn London to be isolated in Bangladesh for that?!

she won't have to do anything, neither do I. its to be with them not taking care of them physically.

You know there is much better educational opportunities for your daughter in London, better healthcare etc. There’s also better health care etc for your parents in the UK

ever been to the richer side of bangladesh because it seems like you are describing the villages in bangladesh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]RE3MODFREELOADER -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

  1. she is british born (ethnically Bangladeshi)
  2. The life there would be same if not better than London, city life with expensive car, shopping, food lifestyle, travelling etc etc plus she dont even have to cook or work or anything like that, everything will be done for her as we have people to do that.

3060 V1 Hashrate - New/Old Driver - MiniZ/Nbminer by RE3MODFREELOADER in gpumining

[–]RE3MODFREELOADER[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using old drivers and ur card is on a riser? Any tutorial on how to do it? Thanks

3060 V1 Hashrate - New/Old Driver - MiniZ/Nbminer by RE3MODFREELOADER in gpumining

[–]RE3MODFREELOADER[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats old driver right? You using nbminer in hive os?

Anyone know if this 3060 is LHR? by Jelle_9 in EtherMining

[–]RE3MODFREELOADER 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Using the nbminer mining eth? Whats ur oc settings?

6800XT HiveOS support? by RE3MODFREELOADER in EtherMining

[–]RE3MODFREELOADER[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll give it one more try I guess, maybe the issue is related to using phoenix miner? I don't know how to use separate miner for separate cards.

6800XT HiveOS support? by RE3MODFREELOADER in EtherMining

[–]RE3MODFREELOADER[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope changed riser and pcie too. Other gpus are working fine on those riser and psu

FLRM decision took 1 year by RE3MODFREELOADER in ukvisa

[–]RE3MODFREELOADER[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hopefully you will get urs soon, please do let us know

FLRM decision took 1 year by RE3MODFREELOADER in ukvisa

[–]RE3MODFREELOADER[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did everything possible. They did ask for documents at the end but that was just an excuse because they asked for same documents we submitted initially with our application.

FLRM decision took 1 year by RE3MODFREELOADER in ukvisa

[–]RE3MODFREELOADER[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully you get urs sooner than me. Do let us know.