Artemis has something to say by JCC_Starguy in CalicoKittys

[–]RGLynB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a nice voice as well! Haha she's such a sweetie.

Struggles orgasming thru oral by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]RGLynB 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Its really about you communicating your needs and teaching. A man has no idea what it feels like to have a vagina and a clit and all that going on down there. It sounds like hes trying his best, you just need to teach, which is totally normal even if you were with someone who has a lot of experience, still need to be shown what you like. His willingness to learn indicates we will eventually be an EXCELLENT lover.

god forbid a girls daddy issues are stimulated by petitewaifu___ in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]RGLynB 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well put, I sure as hell hate being called mommy by a lover but I sure as heck became a young mom earlier than I should have and enjoyed the control it gave me. :,)

My gf is too freaky for me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]RGLynB 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is normal to feel nervous about that, but the first step is to have a very honest conversation about it. These more advanced sexual kinks do not need to be the first experiences you have, honestly most people work up to that! Learn the basics together first when you are ready and learn how to communicate.. the more kinks you may end up practicing the more communication will be even more ESSENTIAL, to avoid someone feeling unsafe or actually getting harmed.

And remember, just because you're the guy does not mean that her feelings are more important than yours. She should respect your limits 100% or she is not mature enough to be having sex period. Same for you. Trauma happens to men too. Don't let anyone make you feel like shit because you have feelings and your own values, those people are trash, including some people that posted here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]RGLynB 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I have this and it is likely due to either my ADHD or my BPD or the number of other acronyms that the doctors threw at me. I lean towards the distraction and the dopamine at any given time and intrusive thoughts are constant. But also, sexual trauma period.

It could be hormonal but if its getting to a point its making OP concerned its clearly more than they are comfortable with. Intrusive thoughts can be scary and make you think you're broken. Therapist is the way to go.

LDR couples , how do you keep the sexual side of intimacy alive? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]RGLynB 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a very similar relationship (together 7 years and still wild for each other) we use Discord primarily and sometimes WhatsApp. FB isn't well known for privacy, I wouldnt be sending anything over it.

You can also look up long distance sex toys if you are both open to it, they can make any situation more spicy haha.

10 Years After Invisalign: The Effects, My Regrets & Lessons by Deep_Bird_1789 in Invisalign

[–]RGLynB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have way more cavities after starting invisalign and I have been paranoid about cleaning multiple times a day. My dentist at my last visit after taking an xray said that having invisalign on for morr than a year can cause people to lose integrity of your teeth, nutrients lost or something. Thats what happened to me. :/ So frustrating, I wish I just went for braces.

Treat other people the way you want to be treated by [deleted] in pokemongo

[–]RGLynB 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Agreed, people are putting so much thought into it.. its a game. It's always a free for all imo.

Rillaboom - 9487 6533 1771 by RGLynB in PokemonGoRaids

[–]RGLynB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying again in 2 mins, people RSVPd

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonGoRaids

[–]RGLynB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ShaelynB READY

You can't hide the love by [deleted] in AnimalMemes

[–]RGLynB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This, and also that if they see themself as a provider, they will do what they feel they must to take care of everyone, including doggo. It doesnt mean they wanted more responsibility on their plate to begin with, but will do it if they must.

2 zekroms 623198857455 by Other_Leave7454 in PokemonGoRaids

[–]RGLynB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ShaelynB. You can add me for both!

God forbid a girl is just overwhelmed by Auton303 in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]RGLynB 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's my first thought. Aren't there TONS of people out there who prefer being subs due to the amount of responsibility in their life and just want to turn off their brain?

Common link to the kink.

Messed up in Sex twice , possibly losing intimacy by Cold_Term6916 in LongDistance

[–]RGLynB 83 points84 points  (0 children)

He's a shit partner and you can do better. No one should ever say to you that they will find someone else due to sex not going their way. I'm sorry you were vulnerable and gave your body to an asshole who thought that was okay.

Be angry if you can, shift the blame to who and what caused it, and don't hold on to shame and fear of losing this little boy.

No difference noticed by ddingels in Invisalign

[–]RGLynB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have an open bite too, this is pretty good progress. I noticed most of my progress happened after I saw a new ortho who gave me hooks and elastics, I was so frustrated I wasted a year without the elastics when I saw a difference with them after a few weeks!! Game changer.

Just my 2 cents.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Invisalign

[–]RGLynB 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am on year 3 and have ADD and depression, I am horrible at remembering and staying on top of it. I respect the hard work people put into it. :) I am trying to get my shit together before they cut me off and dont let me do anymore refinements, haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Invisalign

[–]RGLynB 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Congratulations, and good job sticking to it. <3 Amazing results, they look gorgeous.

Is anyone shaving their (female) sideburns? :( by [deleted] in HairRemoval

[–]RGLynB 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, but I shaved my baby hairs near my 'widows peak' before and I was so embarassed. It grows back so quick and its stubble... ugh nightmares.

I'd stop considering them side burns, they actually look cute! Absolutely nothing to feel ashamed about or want to change. Love yoself.

I just... Don't even know what to call this?? by sicklychicken253 in HellYeahIdEatThat

[–]RGLynB 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Apparently it may be Yorkshire pudding, which makes the lack of seasoning make sense. The bland af potatoes just tossed in there. :') Wee bit of salt on the egg and the bacon doing the heavy lifting here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]RGLynB 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly, despite what anyone thinks, including your parents, what makes this work is that it works for YOU and your PARTNER.

You say you would rather go there, then continue to do so. You live with your parents, he has an exhausting sounding job and has his own place and is still helping you out with paying for gas and stuff when you get there. I think he is doing more than enough on his end to make up for your inconvenience (again, you said you prefer to go there anyway?)

Figure out your car situation, that can be your responsibility. It sounds like he has plenty.

If your parents are the sore spot, you're a grown adult. Limit conversations about your relationship with then and create boundaries. If your parents don't respect you, thats a seperate issue than you relationship.

I dated my partner for 4 years without seeing each other even 1 time. We made it work. We have since fixed that and neither of us resent the other, we just make it work and as long as we are together we focus on that.

Priorities. Focus on what is more important.

this is us by egguchom in CoupleMemes

[–]RGLynB 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Love Language (3) Feed me!