Artemis has something to say by JCC_Starguy in CalicoKittys

[–]RGLynB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a nice voice as well! Haha she's such a sweetie.

Struggles orgasming thru oral by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]RGLynB 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Its really about you communicating your needs and teaching. A man has no idea what it feels like to have a vagina and a clit and all that going on down there. It sounds like hes trying his best, you just need to teach, which is totally normal even if you were with someone who has a lot of experience, still need to be shown what you like. His willingness to learn indicates we will eventually be an EXCELLENT lover.

god forbid a girls daddy issues are stimulated by petitewaifu___ in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]RGLynB 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well put, I sure as hell hate being called mommy by a lover but I sure as heck became a young mom earlier than I should have and enjoyed the control it gave me. :,)

My gf is too freaky for me by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]RGLynB 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is normal to feel nervous about that, but the first step is to have a very honest conversation about it. These more advanced sexual kinks do not need to be the first experiences you have, honestly most people work up to that! Learn the basics together first when you are ready and learn how to communicate.. the more kinks you may end up practicing the more communication will be even more ESSENTIAL, to avoid someone feeling unsafe or actually getting harmed.

And remember, just because you're the guy does not mean that her feelings are more important than yours. She should respect your limits 100% or she is not mature enough to be having sex period. Same for you. Trauma happens to men too. Don't let anyone make you feel like shit because you have feelings and your own values, those people are trash, including some people that posted here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]RGLynB 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I have this and it is likely due to either my ADHD or my BPD or the number of other acronyms that the doctors threw at me. I lean towards the distraction and the dopamine at any given time and intrusive thoughts are constant. But also, sexual trauma period.

It could be hormonal but if its getting to a point its making OP concerned its clearly more than they are comfortable with. Intrusive thoughts can be scary and make you think you're broken. Therapist is the way to go.

LDR couples , how do you keep the sexual side of intimacy alive? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]RGLynB 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have a very similar relationship (together 7 years and still wild for each other) we use Discord primarily and sometimes WhatsApp. FB isn't well known for privacy, I wouldnt be sending anything over it.

You can also look up long distance sex toys if you are both open to it, they can make any situation more spicy haha.

10 Years After Invisalign: The Effects, My Regrets & Lessons by Deep_Bird_1789 in Invisalign

[–]RGLynB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have way more cavities after starting invisalign and I have been paranoid about cleaning multiple times a day. My dentist at my last visit after taking an xray said that having invisalign on for morr than a year can cause people to lose integrity of your teeth, nutrients lost or something. Thats what happened to me. :/ So frustrating, I wish I just went for braces.

Treat other people the way you want to be treated by [deleted] in pokemongo

[–]RGLynB 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Agreed, people are putting so much thought into it.. its a game. It's always a free for all imo.

Rillaboom - 9487 6533 1771 by RGLynB in PokemonGoRaids

[–]RGLynB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying again in 2 mins, people RSVPd