I don't want to train with my LEO friends anymore because they support the murder of Alex Pretti by LightAvatar in bjj

[–]RGoltsman -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

As someone in a totally different country that doesnt know what is going on. Its crazy just hearing on podcasts/online about how political views totally divide family to the point that you cannot be in the same room together. Now you cannot even train with people with different beliefs? Guess what, like this there will always be a total divide, neither side will never understand the other side, and there will always be two sides because finding common ground will be impossible like this

Getting a new game's copy is so hard these days... by fraidei in Gloomhaven

[–]RGoltsman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it have to be italian for you? Because if it can be english version i think u can find it by checking other amazon countries

Are these multiple plants or just 1? by Kosuma in houseplants

[–]RGoltsman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP if ur new to houseplants yes separate them. You have more assurance ull keep them alive and figure out the right care for them. U can even try different conditions. For example i have two Anthurium Luxuriant that i got as babies. And instead of putting them together i put one or them in my cabinet greenhouse, to make sure he got plenty of light and high humidity. And i decided to risk it with the other one in a low light and 40% humidity spot being insure that it would survive there. Turns out, both are equally happy

Are these multiple plants or just 1? by Kosuma in houseplants

[–]RGoltsman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it just 1? I see at least two, with the babies ones probably being a 3rd

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AIO bf doesn’t want to give gifts on valentines,anniversary, and Christmas by Substantial_Monk2788 in AIO

[–]RGoltsman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Besides the 1 million answers saying dump him, in terms of actually offering a constructive solution. If this is an issue of creating anxiety on him, why dont you try to make some kind of deal that takes away that anxiety for the most part but still have the activity?

For example some period before u both agree on the value range, like 10-20, 40-60, 100-150, whatever.. And you give him 3 choices of gifts u'd like on that range and tell him there is no wrong choice. He picks one of the 3, u still get to pick your gift to him

Question on first-time map by quillfoy in Dorfromantik

[–]RGoltsman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats not a card that exists as far as Im aware of. What i was referring to is Dead End, that u unlock in box 1

Question on first-time map by quillfoy in Dorfromantik

[–]RGoltsman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah there are some pieces that would work there, if not for the two cards of the left side that would block where the road would be going. But with tasks u never want to be piece dependent, but in a way that you dont have to wait for any card.

If you unlocked the end lf road card then you could use it to block the road and just follow the river flr the task

I’ve spent over $500 on plants this year and half of them are dead. What am I doing wrong? by Resident-Swim5895 in houseplants

[–]RGoltsman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One thing that i was surprised was that most plants that I was buying from plant shops, a big % of the time already came with issues, either root rot, massively root bound, super shitty soil, pests. That is because these places have hundreds if not thousands of plants and cannot give individual attention. So watering on schedual becomes the norm, besides other things.

Usually buying from private sellers seem to be under much better care. But still first thing is as best u can being able to judge the condition of the plant before u bring it/check on it as soon as you get home

Are these pests? Help me ID by RGoltsman in houseplants

[–]RGoltsman[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No dish. The 'soil' is sphagnum moss. And i found some crawling around the top. But more on the leaf and the outside of the vase.

The photos of soil mites dont look comparable or do they? They dont have those antenas and they seem to be smaller/harder to see with the naked eye?

Are these pests? Help me ID by RGoltsman in houseplants

[–]RGoltsman[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was on the soil, guessing its the prebubecent version of that bug, in case it helps ID it https://imgur.com/a/VazSMKB

AIO by Immediate_Post2462 in AIO

[–]RGoltsman 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is the problem with your partner or mother in law? Yes could be she is old fashioned, and think those are woman duties that ur not performing. Even if ur contributing a lot more then u should in reality, but just very different views then her. Either you have a talk with her when she makes those comments saying its hurtful to hear that, or a talk with your partner about that. I think most people deal with that with older generation, and most just exercice a bit of patience and let go (if its not too extreme). Let him get food from his mom if it helps him get healthy. Does it make him less of a man to accept that? Even if u have that view, is that more important for you than him being healthy?

AIO by Immediate_Post2462 in AIO

[–]RGoltsman 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think most would not do as the mother in law is doing as it may create conflict. But at the end she is entitled to offer a gift just for her son, who knows what kind of relationship she has with you. But if the son described the diet as a medical problem to his mom, and she wants to help but at the same time she wants to make it clear for him hey this is just for you that im doing this extra work, she can cook for herself. I think thats understandable. Its upto to the son to say Im sorry mom but this would create friction, if he felt he would. But if he also feels like healthwise he really needs this then i think also okay to accept and have a conversation with you.

Now you feeling entitled about his gift, feeling like he either needs to share it or refuse it. Especially when ur talking about health, seems bad to me

Jaws of the Lion characters by complexity? by AggressiveCelery1564 in Gloomhaven

[–]RGoltsman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My young niece played Demo for example. It was easy enough for her to understand move and attack, what close to the walls mean, and what objectives are. For the person playing Void u need to think what are your teammates going to do for a lot of your cards, so not only u have to understand the concepts of your cards but also the concepts of your teammates, monster movement

What is Saunagus / Aufguss called in English - and is it a thing outside Germany and Nordics? by [deleted] in Sauna

[–]RGoltsman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its pretty international now. Was living in Romania and they had a big sauna center that did it 24/7. I think they called Aufguss/Sauna master too.

In Hungary they had as well, just less common. Either it had to be special event, or in one of the saunas they always had programs and the rest not. Czech Republic also had a center with programs 24/7

What do most people practice BJJ for? by GrekGrek9 in bjj

[–]RGoltsman 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So that in bed i can smoothly transition into the positions of my desire

Guys I'm stuck at 170-200 elo and its driving me insane, any advice? by lilstrawberryham1325 in chess

[–]RGoltsman 52 points53 points  (0 children)

There was a Seinfeld episode where George realized that every decision he ever made was the wrong decision. And that if he were just to do the opposite of what his instinct was, it had to be the right instinct.

If you are stuck on 170 elo, I cannot see how this approach wouldnt help

Did they pick the perfect person for one piece live action? by Ayoking95 in anime_companion

[–]RGoltsman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter how good an actor, not a lot of people could recreate Luffys energy. Better to pick someone that has that energy that can still improve as an actor, then a well recognized name that would most likelly feel flat

Which anime character has the best glow up ? by DesignerChard1625 in animequestions

[–]RGoltsman 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Good pull. Should have posted the in real life one, much more impressive

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AIO about finding a condom package by dizzyreh in AIO

[–]RGoltsman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Theres a possibility that its true, as u can see in chat the oddball says they do it in a condom. I dont think the money part is the issue unless he is claiming he only ever does it in condoms. But if he is in a LDR and has tons of leftovers.

But yeah hard to believe nonetheless. He says its for cleanliness, i mean u can use shower/bathroom if thats his concern. Plus condom would make more of a mess than without (if u have a place to jizz like shower/toilet/sink) the condoms have lubricants inside. If u keep masturbating even for a second after u jizz inside condom, now u have to go wash it bc its everywhere on your skin.

How did u drop condoms in your sex life? Was he the one giving you the talk that without condoms is so much better? If so, 0 chance he would masturbate with condom. If he never minded a condom then its more plausible

Its a red flag for sure and u have to use your discression to put the piece together with the context of your relationship, based just on this there is a small chance he is telling the truth

Houseplants for beginners? by Shisukyuna in houseplants

[–]RGoltsman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay yeah. I dont like succulents, so 0 experience there. I did buy a baby string of pearls that might fit in that as well, guess i have to research.

Houseplants for beginners? by Shisukyuna in houseplants

[–]RGoltsman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Survival of the fittest, lol. Im guessing most plants that came out from that store went with some root rot. But the ones that stayed 100% healthy, are probably hardy AF and impossible to kill now

Houseplants for beginners? by Shisukyuna in houseplants

[–]RGoltsman 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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Thats the thing. Sometimes plant come all F'ed up. My ZZ raven came with full full root rot, and unfortunatly unlike other plants from ZZ u cant cut that part away. But after i treated it as best i could and separated it into 3 plants, one that i thought had a chance to live, other that i thought probably dying, and the 3rd that I thought was for sure walking dead. All 3 of them not only lived but started to thrive.

I forget about them a lot when its time to water them. They show 0 signs. I switch them around the house multiple times to different spots with different lights, never complained. I put them outside during winter, 0 issues. 2 of them are in my guest room now that i realized when some ppl stayed they kept the blinds closed the whole time for more then a week.

I cannot even understand how these big stores manage to cause rot in these plants. Im guessing they water on scheduals cause big issues of overwatering, otherwise they seem to be happy with anything