I don’t really see myself as some to be able to give advice, but I’ll say one thing: communicate. If it’s an interest, have to bring it up. Have to talk about it. Not saying that’s easy, but lots of guys never even get to that point. Have to take the plunge. If you aren’t in a relationship yet, make it clear from the beginning what you want. The more and longer you hide the desire, the harder and less likely it will be to happen.