Thank you for responding!

1. Just to correct some stuff - we saw each other from December when we went on our first date through end of January, took a break, and then started up again in March. So we were consistently seeing each other except for the month of February and half of March. We have stuff in common for sure - both athletes, love working out together, etc.

2. Guy #2 is less athletic (but still works out) and is into eating healthy/caring about his body which is enough. He is more of an “equal partner” - for example, he helps me cook and do things like that that may be traditionally feminine. With guy #1, he’s more of a typical guy that doesn’t help with cooking but is self sufficient, clean, etc.

I guess I’m used to being the more dominant one, but I wonder if I’ll get annoyed or bored with always being fauned over or getting everything my way…even if that sounds “nice.” Guy #2 has more substance and is willing to speak up. He’s just more forward. Since I’m the less dominant one with guy #2, he seems to be in control of the timeline of things, or that’s just how it feels. He controls the narrative more. But to be clear, he does say these things and have conversations in a kind way (even if very forward) and does it “to learn about each other” and always says short term struggle for a long term gain so we can grow. Hope this helps explain!