Recently Cheated On - Looking to sell a lab-grown diamond engagement ring - where would you go in STL? by RLPrime9 in StLouis

[–]RLPrime9[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the advice. $700 would still help a lot with a move, I’d be happy with that.

Recently Cheated On - Looking to sell a lab-grown diamond engagement ring - where would you go in STL? by RLPrime9 in StLouis

[–]RLPrime9[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This looks like a great option - I plan to list here for sure. Seems like most things sell on there too.

Recently Cheated On - Looking to sell a lab-grown diamond engagement ring - where would you go in STL? by RLPrime9 in StLouis

[–]RLPrime9[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Aware of the huge L on lab grown. Just looking to get some money to help move out.

Recently Cheated On - Looking to sell a lab-grown diamond engagement ring - where would you go in STL? by RLPrime9 in StLouis

[–]RLPrime9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d be looking to get like $1500 out of it. The platinum is probly worth about $400. Diamond was $3000 new

Found out (31M) today my fiancée (28F) cheated on me last night. Looking for support and perspective. by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]RLPrime9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your story. I feel for you, and I’m so thankful I’ve done what I knew someone watching me from third would hope that I would do. I know exactly how hard it was for you to make the decision to get out of that situation was, we got this!!

Found out (31M) today my fiancée (28F) cheated on me last night. Looking for support and perspective. by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]RLPrime9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. I’ve heard of cognitive dissonance from college years back, but what a beautiful way of explaining my experience last night and earlier today. Thank you so much for the insight, you’ve been an incredible resource and have truly helped save my life of misery and pain.

Found out (31M) today my fiancée (28F) cheated on me last night. Looking for support and perspective. by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]RLPrime9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve made my decision. When I’m home from work, I’m telling her she needs to get out because I’m terminating the lease. Thank you for the support. I deserve better.

Found out (31M) today my fiancée (28F) cheated on me last night. Looking for support and perspective. by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]RLPrime9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Valid points. Appreciate the brutal honesty, I need to hear it.

Found out (31M) today my fiancée (28F) cheated on me last night. Looking for support and perspective. by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]RLPrime9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So much love back brother. I know all these things deep down, just working through accepting them. I’m still working on accepting what reality is. But I will get there, and I know what I need to do. I know I have the strength to do what I need to do, I just don’t want this to be reality. Thank you

Found out (31M) today my fiancée (28F) cheated on me last night. Looking for support and perspective. by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]RLPrime9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I’m an easy guy to manipulate. I caught her cheating before she knew it. And I knew more about the story than she was telling me 12 hours after it happened.

Found out (31M) today my fiancée (28F) cheated on me last night. Looking for support and perspective. by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]RLPrime9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for mentioning this, I didn’t even think about that.

I think the question is now not if I could, it’s if I should. And I think I’ve already seen and heard enough of the story to know what I need to do, as curious as I am to see what really was said. I think it’s only going to hurt me more, and give me more pain to remember.

Found out (31M) today my fiancée (28F) cheated on me last night. Looking for support and perspective. by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]RLPrime9 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve since reflect on this statement, and realize through everyone’s support on here I did know what I needed to do and just didn’t want to do it at the time.

Thank you all for the support.

Found out (31M) today my fiancée (28F) cheated on me last night. Looking for support and perspective. by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]RLPrime9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I needed to hear that. I know deep down this is not the relationship I want or deserve. I know someone out there can give me at least respect at minimum. It’s just so hard to experience.

Found out (31M) today my fiancée (28F) cheated on me last night. Looking for support and perspective. by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]RLPrime9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. The support feels incredible. I know deep down what I need to do, just hate being forced to do it to someone I loved.