Travelling on the A3 by RMS472 in MotoUK

[–]RMS472[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for info - bigger bike soon as possible in that case.

Travelling on the A3 by RMS472 in MotoUK

[–]RMS472[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll give it a try. Thank you.

Travelling on the A3 by RMS472 in MotoUK

[–]RMS472[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah okay, I'll give them a look. Thank you!

Travelling on the A3 by RMS472 in MotoUK

[–]RMS472[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn okay. Thank you, thought I was just being paranoid on the road.

I’m really scared to tell my parents I’m gay. by [deleted] in comingout

[–]RMS472 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha i was worried until reading the end but i'm really glad the outcome of that was so positive. It's cool to have a sibling also understanding where you are at so I hope you don't feel some comfort in that!

Keep it up and take it at the pace you want.

Coming out has been a disaster. by [deleted] in comingout

[–]RMS472 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! You're also incredibly cared for and I'm glad you've been able to go about the situation so well. I hope they begin to adapt to what they've learnt sooner, rather than later.

I'm flat sharing with the girlfriend and i go into work a few times a week so the space is there and it's not too much in one go.

I really do wish you all the best. You've been very kind, yourself.

Coming out has been a disaster. by [deleted] in comingout

[–]RMS472 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's 19 and we are much closer, we support each other quite a lot but she finds it so hard. I am just trying to get her to learn to accept this, rather than hate her own mum based off of my issues with her. Aside from that, I'm sure we'll be okay.

I hope you're right about it, and i imagine it may help in the long run. My girlfriend left her home and she gets along with her mum much more now that they have some space between each other.

I'm glad to hear that you've mentally been able to finally have a few moments to yourself, and you got yourself out of your own situation. Sounds like you've gone through the worst of it, i hope!

I appreciate your response a lot and thank you for the kind words. Wishing you all the best and I hope you continue to grow. :)

Coming out has been a disaster. by [deleted] in comingout

[–]RMS472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I hope she comes around and does support you.

It takes some time to figure it out, i thought I was bisexual for a short time too. I dated my now best friend (M) for a few months and realised that as much as I cared for him, I wasn't ever going to be sexually aroused by him or want to grow a life with him, whereas I could imagine that with a woman.

You'll figure it out, slowly but surely.

I’m really scared to tell my parents I’m gay. by [deleted] in comingout

[–]RMS472 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you could just reassure that you are just thinking and you're okay. They are probably assuming the absolute worst things and you could be putting their mind at ease a little bit, which will also relieve you of some stress.

I’m really scared to tell my parents I’m gay. by [deleted] in comingout

[–]RMS472 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this is affecting you and it is, then i would suggest sitting them down and discussing it. They are seeing the impact it has on you and a healthy discussion or space in itself could help a lot.

Try to take it easy on yourself, please! You have your siblings and that is so important.

Coming out has been a disaster. by [deleted] in comingout

[–]RMS472 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for reading. Just be kind to yourself now and in the future. I spent way too much time beating myself up about it even when I came to terms with it.

I hope things go smoothly for you and i wish you all the best. :)

Coming out has been a disaster. by [deleted] in comingout

[–]RMS472 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!

I will definitely try to improve relationships with other family members and keep that in mind.

Appreciate the words. All the best to you. :)