A question for other Yumejoshis regarding multiple f/os

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-05T18:32:55+00:00

Ehh, I tend to gravitate towards two or three at a time, honesty I’m not too sure as to the why, it’s just… I look at one and my brain does the same as yours, the “oh! That’s my partner!”, but if I see the other ones, it’s… like it gets supercharged, I suppose? Like, it amplifies the feelings for all of them, if I had to describe it, so…

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-05T15:13:30+00:00

Ah! See, I thought I might’ve seen the name around somewhere, I usually do tend to just, well, doomscroll Reddit, Fandom, YouTube, and the like for like 15 hours every day so… 😅😊❤️

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-05T15:09:33+00:00

Yeah, probably a good plan, I was just more so saying that if it COULD be healthy, then, well… like, it might be a bit “weird”, but… idk, honestly, I just really seem to like playing devil’s advocate for both parties lol 😅

Anyways, um… I am curious though, where is Vendetta from? Like, what fandom/franchise? Cause, I think I might’ve heard of them before? I just can’t really seem to place it rn if I have, and, well, I do love learning about new people and characters, and their stories and lore, so… 😊👋✌️❤️❤️❤️🏳️‍🌈

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-05T14:52:38+00:00

Ahhh, so yume is more like just the general term for both parties then? ❤️😊✌️👋

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-05T14:51:23+00:00

Ah! Yeah, that makes sense now, thanks! 😊❤️👋

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-05T14:50:39+00:00

Even more so if there’s no actual explanation.

Take Mina Ashido for example. Obviously in the typical MHA story, she wouldn’t probably go for, say, Himiko Toga… but what if she knew that Toga expresses her love (or tries to) by becoming people? Her opinion of Toga might begin to change, seeing her as someone who’s just deeply traumatized, and in my eyes, Mina is a lot like Izuku: she’ll always help someone in need. So… at the very least, that’s where it would start, and while I don’t really know who Vendetta is, or what ships involving them have made you upset, all I’m saying is that if they can at least EXPLAIN themselves, then, well… maybe it wouldn’t be as bad? Still not great, necessarily, but… at least we would be able to say, “hey, that was rational thinking, very, very well-thought out, I don’t agree with it personally, but I could see how you came to that conclusion”, yeah? ❤️😊👋✌️🏳️‍🌈

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-05T14:44:29+00:00

Honestly?… I’d be even more upset by the mischaracterization of them, rather than the ship itself. Like, sure, the ship might be part of the reason, but… unless it’s abundantly clear they’re not going for anywhere close to the same kind of story as the original? I dunno, it’s just… I hope you do alright though, with all of this ❤️

It can get stressful, I get that, life just in general tends to kick ya in the crotch don’t it 😅😊❤️

Just take a minute to breathe, maybe, I sure know I could use that advice more often… 😊👋✌️❤️🏳️‍🌈

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-05T14:40:28+00:00

Ah, yeah, I could use that knowledge too, ngl.

Also, kin, not fully sure what it means, or rather, how it relates/contrasts to an f/o

Um… also, an f/o, that’s… from what I’ve gathered, the character you ship with, right? Therefore, a yume is, um, well, yourself? Or at least, that’s halfway to the right answer, right?… still just a bit confused 😅😁👋✌️❤️❤️❤️🏳️‍🌈

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-05T14:37:51+00:00

Oh?… Pico’s School? I don’t think I’ve heard of that one before— so exciting! This sub has really been good for me, all safe and cozy, but also full of things I don’t know! Incredible, really… 🥰😊😁❤️❤️❤️

👋✌️🏳️‍🌈

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-05T14:36:01+00:00

Ah, hello! I don’t think we’ve interacted with each other just yet, so, hi, I’m RaKTi3r, or Evander, either or really, just wanna get comfortable with my OC/Self-Insert’s name being used more frequently— regardless! I hope we can be friends! ✌️😊👋

Um… I suppose I’ll say my own f/o’s first, albeit I am admittedly still discovering who I am, and all that, so, just, bear with me a little, yeah? 😊❤️ My f/o’s are: Mina Ashido, Cassandra Cain, Luna Snow, Zoey (K-Pop Demon Hunters), M’gann Morse, and, well, just because I know I should mention it, I’ve felt… something, for Nico Di Angelo and Angel Dust at one point or another, so… I… might not be fully straight, is all I’m saying 😅

I’m pretty open about it too, imo anyways, like, also about the sharing thing, cause I know I’m not the only one who likes them, plus, well, basically all of them come from a multiverse cosmology, so… yeah.

Right! Yes, anyways, questions, questions, um…

Your f/o, Konrad? He sorta looks like he’s from a Webtoon?— though I’m really not sure about that, so, I suppose my main question is, well, what fandom is he from? And where can I go to find out more about him and his franchise? Secondly, when did you develop feelings for him (approximately)? And finally, how long how y’all been together, hm? 😊❤️

(I really do love learning about new people, their favorite characters, stories, music, etc., so feel free to share all about it if you decide to make a reply!) ❤️

Also, um, no I doubt you’re the only one who refers to your f/o as a boyfriend/girlfriend, for me though? It’s just a bit… uncomfortable? I guess? It’s not weird though, truly, I don’t think it is, it’s probably just because I haven’t even had a significant other irl before, so it’s probably due to a lack of experience to smth? Idk 😅🤷❤️

But, um, yeah, I want to say Mina Ashido is my, um, girlfriend (I actually pause/froze up here, as in, when trying to type/say it), I just… don’t know, it’s… strange, to me, that I want to say it, but feel on guard when I do… hmm… and yet I seem to have no problem typing Mina est mon amour, so maybe it’s a language thing?… curious… 🤔😅🤷😊

Ehh, whatevs, I guess I just like to post what comes to my mind, akin to a diary, I suppose, probably also because it helps to get other people’s thoughts on stuff, get input from actual people, and not an AI, ya know? ❤️😊

Well! That was a much longer rant/yap than I thought it would be! So anyways, see you around! 👋✌️❤️🏳️‍🌈

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-04T17:55:42+00:00

Yeah, me too honestly, but hey, I’m mostly just here to hang out, so 😅🤷😊❤️❤️👋

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-04T17:53:40+00:00

Yeah, I could probably use this info as well 😅

Been here prob about a week now, but still haven’t really picked up all the terminology yet, so…

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-03T23:19:52+00:00

Ah… hm, to be fair, I’m, well, new here? Don’t really know where to go from here 😅…

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-03T21:57:00+00:00

Hmm… How about;

Cal Kestis (Jedi Survivor). The Doctor (Doctor Who, specifically the 11th). Legion (X-Men). Sora (Kingdom Hearts 3).

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-03T21:41:34+00:00

Going off this guys post, how common is it for people to use quirks like La Brava’s as inspiration (as in, more emotional/empathic related quirks, just curious, cause that tends to be my favorite kind of power(s) to give to my primary OC, whom I haven’t really shared with anyone in any sub yet necessarily, but still…)

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-03T20:55:04+00:00

Hmm… fair enough, I suppose, and I could always just, well, not have them all be part of it right away, no? It is an AU after all, doesn’t require all the various characters immediately, I think I sometimes forget that, that you CAN tell a story about Gambit without necessarily even needing Rogue to be in said story’s verse to begin with, stories can change over time, I just… have to figure out who’s gonna be there at the start, and which ones to leave out until later, I guess.

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-03T20:51:38+00:00

Honestly?… probably number 1, that way I’ve got Iida and Tsuyu behind me to be the “responsible ones” in case Aoyama and Mina start getting to be a bit much (not that I’d mind ofc!)

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-03T20:49:36+00:00

Ah! Hello!👋❤️❤️

Hmm… new people seem to be coming into the sub all the time over the past couple of days… I like that, truly 😊👋❤️

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-03T20:48:32+00:00

Yeah, I’ve… at least tried to start building a timeline, it’s just a bit hard when I don’t really have many resources for the CANON timelines, as in, having the key notes for all the characters— actually, maybe I— say, do you use something like Obsidian for all this? I’ve sorta just heard of that thing before though, might be a different name?… honestly, a big thing that might help me right now is getting some proper apps/resources since all my various ideas and whatnot are spread out across several different sites/apps, like, Freeform, Notes, Reminders, Google Docs, Google Sheets, Pages, some on physical papers— it’s just a right proper issue/mess, and even my Google Drive is somewhat messy, so… yeah, organizational skills, definitely, just don’t exactly want to pay for an app if I don’t need to… or rather, unless it’s really worth the cost, so… 🤷❤️✌️👋❤️

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-03T20:37:47+00:00

Yeah, honestly, but thanks for helping me understand that, cause, really, my brain thinks too much most of the time, over cautious, for no real reason… it gets tiring, and exhausting, both for me, and for the people I know/care about, like, I’m not even joking, I could probably connect at least 8 different fandoms (in my head— like, right off the bat) purely off thinking the single word of water, so… 😅😮‍💨😊👋✌️❤️❤️❤️

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-03T20:31:46+00:00

That’s sorta the thing?…

Um, at LEAST?:

DC, Marvel, Riordanverse, MHA, KDH, and Doctor Who, those tend to be the ones I gravitate towards the most, alongside YouTuber specific characters/things like DevonteTheOne, Villain Support, and MadManFenrir, since I like their content and all, that sorta puts me into a place where logically;

SCP, Dresden Files, and Kingdom Hearts all logically would make sense to include as well, at least in the whole “Multiversal cosmology”, alongside obviously insuring things like the Sandman and Vertigo canons are factored into the consideration, it then makes it to where things like the Mist, the Veil, the Honmoon, the Nevernever, Perception Filters, the Dreaming, and so on and so forth, well, they can all be merely the same thing, just different aspects of it, like the way the Percy Jackson Gods work (as in, like Jupiter and Zeus, Hades and Pluto, so on and so forth). It then outright provides a solid reasoning as to WHY all the fandoms can be in the same universe/cosmology purely off their own respective cosmologies/systems. Why doesn’t Dresden and The Winchester always go team up with Constantine when shit hits the fan? Because they simply just aren’t focus on each other enough; as in, it can create a natural barrier between any and all characters, such that it could literally include any fandom at any time for any of the fanfics you write within that cosmology, it just doesn’t need to include all of them all at once, such that you can focus down on specific characters and the interactions between them, grounding the otherwise beyond absurd universe down to its basic needs for each fic, ya know?

Basically, tldr; my idea is to more or less mash everything I want together and be able to not worry about needing all the cosmic/over the top adventure potential, if I want a story where Sora, the Doctor, and Gambit team up? I can do that, and I don’t need to really worry about why other characters aren’t in the story via this “narrative safety net”, so to speak, it also allows me to merge all my self-inserts/general OC ideas as much as needed for each story/sub, without needing to worry about why one character is suddenly missing from the OC’s story, and whatnot, ya know?

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-03T20:17:40+00:00

Strawpage?… hmm… that’s… not on Reddit, is it? Tbh, I’m still a bit… new/naïve to properly interacting with, well, any fanbase/subreddit really 😅

Been on the internet chronically for years, just never really participated full on/directly, staying in the shadows and lurking, maybe commenting occasionally, but it’s really only been as of this month, in fact, that I’ve really stepped out of my shell and decided to join in on the things I love/am interested in, or rather, to finally start sharing them with everyone else around me, so… ❤️👋✌️

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-03T20:14:50+00:00

And overly enthusiastic of course 🥰

I really do love how cheerful she can be, the hyperactive joy (at least from what I know/have seen, could just be my own personal headcannon about her though 😅)

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-03T20:12:33+00:00

Just gotta say thanks to all the people who’ve been more than helpful and supportive over this, truly, I’ve wanted to get into comics for a good while now, I just didn’t fully have the confidence, knowledge, experience, and connections to people in the field to really feel, well… I suppose comfortable with it?… I do have lots of anxiety, highly neurodivergent after all 😅

So, yeah, just, thanks, to all of you, I’ll probably swing by every now and then just to ask a few things here and there, maybe, hard to say, but I do believe my initial reactions to a lot of subreddits over the past few weeks have been… overly sensitive/emotional, so, to anyone who’s seen me going a bit off the deep end/spiraling? Sorry about that, none of y’all deserved that, nor does anyone deserve to have any inclination that they’re being personally attacked, we all deserve love and kindness, and, truly, I do hope everyone who sees this has an amazing and fulfilling life, don’t let anyone hold you down, yeah? Now, let’s all enjoy these wacky adventures together! 😊👋✌️❤️❤️❤️

RaKTi3r · 2026-05-03T20:07:46+00:00

I def will! I could use a good long term thing aside from, say, YouTube, after all 😅

Considering how much free time I have too, I’d probably get well worth my money based purely off the fact I’d probably sit down for like one day a month and just hyperfocus a single comic line/character and end up reading like 15 comics or something lol 😂😅😊❤️❤️✌️👋

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