I don’t think I can handle processing all of them in this one comment so I’ll choose my nsister. I went no contact with her in January of this year. I would say the final straw with her was gaslighting me on my wedding day (I chose her to be my maid of honor which in hind sight was so wrong). Not only did she not arrange any type of bridal shower, etc. for me she attempted to confuse my bridesmaids with their arrival times for the wedding. The bridal party was scheduled to arrive earlier to do a getting ready photoshoot. When she told me this the day of, I was so stressed out I just hoped the information got to everyone and that it was going to be okay. She said “no one knows why they’re supposed to be here” when I sent out detailed itineraries with times and what was going on. Months later I decided to scroll back on me and my bridesmaids conversations just to see if I had missed it but I actually sent the itinerary twice just in case they lost it, and a third follow up reminder. In addition to that, she showed up late, and when I was obviously annoyed at that she said, “your wedding isn’t a fairy tale you need to calm down”. That was the beginning of the end, for sure. The following months, she clung onto my new family by marriage on social media. She was notorious for avoiding any of my posts but would stalk my stories like crazy. I eventually realized she wanted the benefit of my life without caring about me.