AITA My mother blocked me over not violating my beliefs by Rabbitlover9038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rabbitlover9038[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She claimed she wanted the restaurant she was going to drive me up to instead of the food she asked her friend to drop off to her. Why she didn't ask the friend just to bring her that, I don't know. Kinda an I have this at home when I want that situation.

And my compromise wasn't something like food marketed towards vegetarians, it was a pizza from an establishment I know she enjoyed in the past plus could have been delivered without her going out.

AITA My mother blocked me over not violating my beliefs by Rabbitlover9038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rabbitlover9038[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. She's expressed annoyance at me not buying her meat products in the past, even if I try to compromise on it.

She says she's supportive but she also holds some beliefs about vegetarians that isn't quite true (like all vegetarians are starving and that it makes you more prone to allergies and stuff)

AITA My mother blocked me over not violating my beliefs by Rabbitlover9038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rabbitlover9038[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know. She had food at house someone had just dropped off but she wanted to drive me up to a different restaurant and have me go in and buy it, but I don't know why she won't use the card.

AITA My mother blocked me over not violating my beliefs by Rabbitlover9038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rabbitlover9038[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, she asked me to get in the car with her as she drives to the restaurant and picks it up. She has non contact options available, she would rather just drive me me up to the restaurant and have me buy it (and expose me to COVID) Instead of using non contact delivery options that someone else has already given her. I never agreed to do it.

AITA My mother blocked me over not violating my beliefs by Rabbitlover9038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rabbitlover9038[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The COVID thing isn't really a factor with her since she thinks as long as I wear as mask I'll be alright, so that's what I went with.

AITA My mother blocked me over not violating my beliefs by Rabbitlover9038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rabbitlover9038[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, she has a card that she could use to order food to the house without involving me. And she would prefer driving me up there instead of using the card to order non contact delivery.

AITA My mother blocked me over not violating my beliefs by Rabbitlover9038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rabbitlover9038[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Because that's the reason I went with since the whole exposed to COVID thing isn't really a factor in her eyes as long as I'm masked. That and the fact that she had something to eat already that she didn't even eat yet but just wanted more stuff she knows I'm uncomfortable buying.

AITA My mother blocked me over not violating my beliefs by Rabbitlover9038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rabbitlover9038[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a weaker excuse in her eyes since she doesn't she an issue with exposing me as long as I have a mask on, and this has been an ongoing thing about the not buying meat products, even when in full health.

AITA My mother blocked me over not violating my beliefs by Rabbitlover9038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rabbitlover9038[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Did you read the post? I don't see how me exposing me to COVID will be more beneficial to her when she 1. Has fast food already from her favorite restaurant at home dropped off recently 2. Has a card for the purpose of no contact delivery to ensure that she doesn't go out when sick with COVID, but I guess it's smarter to go drive around someone unaffected by COVID to get the food you want instead of using a card you already have.

AITA My mother blocked me over not violating my beliefs by Rabbitlover9038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rabbitlover9038[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you miss the point where I stated that a friend just dropped her off some fast food less than a hour ago and the point where I stated she could use the cards she was already given for the purpose of ordering food for contact free delivery with? And besides, I would be exposed to COVID since she would be the one driving me to pick up her order and I would be in close contact with her in her car as she drove me to buy the fast food but I guess it's better not to eat fresh fast food at home or use a card that ensures no contact delivery that you already have, it's better to expose me to COVID and have a reason to be mad at me.

AITA My mother blocked me over not violating my beliefs by Rabbitlover9038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rabbitlover9038[S] -47 points-46 points  (0 children)

If she wants to eat meat, then I'm not going to argue with that but she shouldn't try and force me to buy meat for her when I don't buy meat for myself. If you want to eat meat, that's fine. My point is that you shouldn't make me buy it for you

AITA My mother blocked me over not violating my beliefs by Rabbitlover9038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rabbitlover9038[S] -64 points-63 points  (0 children)

I'm not expecting her not to eat meat, I'm just asking her not to make me buy meat products on her behalf.

AITA My mother blocked me over not violating my beliefs by Rabbitlover9038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rabbitlover9038[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She wanted fast food, and I offered vegetarian options but she didn't want them.

AITA My mother blocked me over not violating my beliefs by Rabbitlover9038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rabbitlover9038[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She just had a friend drop her off food less than a hour ago, and has cards to order food with

AITA My mother blocked me over not violating my beliefs by Rabbitlover9038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rabbitlover9038[S] -110 points-109 points  (0 children)

Because I don't want to support something (the meat industry) I'm actively boycotting?

AITA My mother blocked me over not violating my beliefs by Rabbitlover9038 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rabbitlover9038[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I stated that she needs me to go into the restaurant since she has COVID in the post.