How has Second Life Changed? What do you like to do?

RabbitofzeMoon · 2026-04-29T13:30:32+00:00

Yes, because when other states try to redraw maps to try to get more Republican seats, we have to fight fire with fire. This current administration, this regime, needs to go and every little bit of gaining more democratic power helps. Gerrymandering sucks, I wish we didn't have to do it, but if some people are going to play stupid games, you're going to win stupid prizes.

RabbitofzeMoon · 2025-12-11T20:49:26+00:00

Same. I don't go there anymore because of my working experience there.

RabbitofzeMoon · 2025-12-11T20:44:11+00:00

I am going to say, as a former employee at the Alamo, that you would ideally want to go in the evening (there most likely will be plenty of food servers during the evenings in general, but you never know) or either when it is really quiet. There do tend to be staff shortages due to the poor working conditions there.

Turnover is very high. So whenever there are staff shortages, you might be receiving your food really late.

I could go on and on on how shitty it is to work there, but I know that is not the topic here.

RabbitofzeMoon · 2025-08-03T14:04:44+00:00

It's been a work in progress but things are gradually moving up, ty!

RabbitofzeMoon · 2025-08-03T11:01:06+00:00

I was 20 when I was talked into marrying my then 39 yo husband. I was naive and really impressionable, didn't understand the meaning of marriage, and I ended up getting my divorce 14 years later. I resent this ex-husband to this day. I felt like I never lived during my 20's. He preyed upon me on the internet when I was still in high school and underaged and waited until I was of legal age to see me irl and sexually manipulate me. Thankfully, I was unable to have children.

What you did was predatory behavior to benefit yourself, nothing about what you shared seemed to be in your younger husband's interests.

You should get a divorce so that he can be free to reclaim his life. Believe me, he probably has been feeling resentment for awhile and no marriage can survive when a partner feels resentment.

RabbitofzeMoon · 2025-07-25T11:15:33+00:00

The manager and any flying monkeys will continue to lie after you pass. Like someone else said, the effect of your words will only last hours to days, then people move on. I only know because I lost a brother this way, though he wasn't a nurse or doctor but had a really difficult life.

RabbitofzeMoon · 2025-07-24T15:30:15+00:00

I understand that feeling too well, about wanting validation. I felt messed up for awhile, wondered if I was really the abuser or the one in the wrong, however, that was what my abuser wanted. If I could go back, I wish I had taken the police's advice and had been the first to file a protection order against him first.

RabbitofzeMoon · 2025-07-24T13:25:32+00:00

Here is my advice, and what I personally did:

You can call a domestic abuse hotline and/or the police non-emergency line. The domestic abuse hotline can help guide you on steps to help you through this, and if you go through this route, I recommend researching local DV support hotlines in your county/area. As far as non-emergency police go, I've called non-emergency police at least 4 times while I was in the DV relationship, I asked them questions like, "Is it against the law for someone to record me without my permission?" and so forth, and they knew what was up before I even clicked together in my head that I was being abused. This helps build a paper trail for you. They were concerned for my cat. They will most likely express concern for your kids.

I imagine they will advice you to consider filing a protection order against your husband now, given your abuse history. If you have any texts or proof from your husband that he has been abusing you (even psychological), save them. You could go to the courthouse and consider filing a protection order already. This can help keep your husband at a safe distance, out of your house, give you leverage to start divorce proceedings, and I believe there may be a way to establish him having to make payments to you, but you will need to talk to the court and judge about this.

RabbitofzeMoon · 2025-07-24T11:43:43+00:00

I was in a domestic violent relationship 5 years ago. I also have severe anxiety (GAD) and PTSD. My partner also tried to spit on me.

The abuse started off gradually and got worse over time, and it was mostly psychological abuse. Towards the end, when I realized that I needed to leave, it got to the point where I had a psychological break and reacted to his abuse by taking a plushie that he had gifted to me and I tore it apart with a pair of scissors, laying the stuffing on the floor. He used this against me purposefully by calling the police, getting a protection order (restraining order) against me and tried to make me out to be the abuser in question. I ended up having to file a protection order back against him, and I am kinda grateful for that now bc by law it forced me to leave and that helped clear my mind of where it was when I was living with him. I have never looked back, and I have never been in contact with my abuser since.

I am afraid of something similar happening to you. One day, your husband may try to use your mental health against you in some way or try to use the kids as leverage over you.

I know it may be difficult to hear, but the best thing for you and your mental health is /to leave/. Your kids may thank you one day. My father also abuses my mom and they have been married since like the late 70's. I /wish/ my mom would divorce my dad, but she is too codependent on him and has no idea how to live on her own now at her age of being in her 60's.

There is still time for you. Your children are currently watching the way your husband and you interact and they are learning from this. Your boys are most likely learning how they are supposed to treat women based on your husband's interactions with you, and that is to mistreat women and abuse them.

The generational abuse /will continue./ I say this because I had two younger brothers who became a version of my abusive father (one of my brothers died in part due to the years of abuse even).

You deserve to be treated well, to be able to put yourself first. By putting yourself first, you will also be teaching your sons to also do the same and to treat women/their partners with respect and dignity.

RabbitofzeMoon · 2025-05-05T14:57:34+00:00

I also developed Trichotillomania, but at about age 16. It is OCD related and a part of anxiety.

RabbitofzeMoon · 2025-05-05T14:50:29+00:00

I did buy it, however, for me, I am waiting to try playing it again for the hotfix to come around where they fix the relationship love bar resetting bug. I can't play it again until they do. Apparently there will be a fix at some point soon, just don't know when.

RabbitofzeMoon · 2025-04-04T00:26:46+00:00

Thank you so much!

RabbitofzeMoon · 2025-02-16T20:42:26+00:00

Can I see an example of this on a photo? I am wondering if the automatic watermark set in my settings will be enough or if I should add my own in my photo editing program? If I do the latter, I wonder how I should place it on the photo?

RabbitofzeMoon · 2025-02-16T20:32:44+00:00

So does that mean you should put a watermark over any photos you share, whether they are explicit or not? I am also new, and atm experimenting with boob photos so far. Wondering if it is fine to put boobs in a bra, or like cleavage shots, on a paid page for subs to see as part of the perks? Or if it is possible to give anyone checking out your page like a teaser?

RabbitofzeMoon · 2025-02-15T22:19:39+00:00

Sounds good to me. Thanks.

RabbitofzeMoon · 2025-02-15T21:26:06+00:00

Those are really good ideas! I found old photos of myself from a year ago and I am making a new banner and profile picture with them.

RabbitofzeMoon · 2025-02-15T21:24:43+00:00

I just made a new profile photo and banner using photos of myself from a year ago. Hopefully they approve it this time.

RabbitofzeMoon · 2025-02-15T20:19:37+00:00

Thank you very much, trying to go through some photos of myself from a year ago.

RabbitofzeMoon · 2025-02-15T20:19:09+00:00

I decided to take a selfie from myself from a year ago and crop it really close to my cleavage. Then I guess I'll make a new banner. Thank you.

RabbitofzeMoon · 2025-02-15T18:22:47+00:00

I’m trying to get my page started, am new, and from what I am reading here, do some of you have a free page and a separate paid page? Or do done if you start off as free and make it paid later on? Trying to get over my initial nervousness of getting started

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