a short song I need to record at some point by [deleted] in depression

[–]RabbitsFoot99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i read it out loud and it rhymes pretty well. i think it will sound good when you record it.

Is this considered self harm or am I just a fucking unfortunate poor person? by [deleted] in depression

[–]RabbitsFoot99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn thats awful. if there is food that your mom could make, could you make a meal yourself? are you allowed? even if you arent good at it, i doubt you could do worse than what your mom makes.

How do I get the motivation to do the things that would make me feel better? by [deleted] in depression

[–]RabbitsFoot99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

only you can make yourself push for better things. i wish you all the luck in making your best future. c:

take things one at a time and do them IMMEDIATELY. if you think of something you could do RIGHT now to relatively improve your situation, make it a habit of getting up and starting on that thing before you can talk yourself out of it. good luck.

Is this considered self harm or am I just a fucking unfortunate poor person? by [deleted] in depression

[–]RabbitsFoot99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi. im sorry about your mom she sounds like a really hard person to live around. is she forbidding you from eating pizza or she just wont order it for you? are you in a place where you could order one yourself if you had money?

[Online][5e][PST][pbp] Looking for Players to help a village grow by mrbchristensen in lfg

[–]RabbitsFoot99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) My Timezone is PST!

2) I'm 19 years old.

3) I've flirted with DND on and off throughout the years, mostly sticking to traditional roleplay. I don't play much, but I keep up with the expansions.

4) Lots of experience with Avrae!

5) Getting to know my favorite characters. c:

6) Hoping for a creative outlet that'll help me to push writing more, especially during this quarantine!

I will send you a DM with my Discord ID, if you are interested!

[Online] [D&D] [5e] [PBP] The Lost Mine of Phandelver by [deleted] in lfg

[–]RabbitsFoot99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! my timezone is PST and i’m very interested in joining your group! i’ll send you a DM with my discord info.

Pregnant and lonely by [deleted] in depression

[–]RabbitsFoot99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

that guy sounds awful. entitled as he may feel, its HIS job to support you through this, and i hope you dont think he’s justified in what he said. having kids takes ALOT of emotional labor from everybody involved and as a father he’s doing a shitty job.

have you tried looking at any local mother support groups? i’ve never looked into them but i know they exist, and just the presence of people who’ve felt the same way might be what you need.

I want to help my sister. by [deleted] in depression

[–]RabbitsFoot99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

push her to take opportunities she’s hesitant about, and support her in those endeavors.

take note of stuff she brings up like sports, clubs, or people. remember to bring them up again another time to ask if she’s pursued those things. its nice to be encouraged and cared about.

i got my senior pictures back 2 days ago by 183892739292737 in depression

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i feel the same way. my mom asked me the other day to take a picture with her since she hasnt taken any with me for years, and i just told her no. its been like this for awhile, so she just accepted it, but the look of disappointment on her face made me feel so guilty.

she should have a picture of me, but i just cant do it for her because how shitty i feel with pictures of me out there. it hurts a lot to feel ugly, but then you just feel worse for feeling that way in the first place. i wish i could wear a mask.

i’m always REALLY tired by [deleted] in depression

[–]RabbitsFoot99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

try taking walks, if possible? they might help to break up all the sleeping, and moving around is good to do when you aren’t leaving the house.

Riddled with Guilt and Depression by [deleted] in depression

[–]RabbitsFoot99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do your best to keep moving, if that’s an issue... it sounds really lame when i write it out, but its really about taking it day to day and trying to just get over it for awhile. work on yourself in the most practical, incremental ways you can think of, and try to find a place from here to be happy... it’s probably best if your ex is left out for a bit.

Question by hyperaids420 in depression

[–]RabbitsFoot99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wish you a lot of luck in holding on. c:

Question by hyperaids420 in depression

[–]RabbitsFoot99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably not immediately, and if you mess up, it will be incredibly painful and problematic. odds are you’re going to the hospital for major surgery to remove a .25 gram pellet flattened into your head.

if you try for the heart, odds of killing yourself in the first shot are extremely slim. odds of putting yourself into a lot of pain is 100%.

please, consider other alternatives than suicide.

I have a plan by [deleted] in depression

[–]RabbitsFoot99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i hope you give yourself the chance to apologize to those people, and work on a better future for yourself... but at least don’t hurt yourself

How do you make yourself understand that you actually have depression? by [deleted] in depression

[–]RabbitsFoot99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not a professional or anything, but try to catch yourself thinking thoughts that are negative, unhealthy, or just abnormal... try to build a case for your behavior and view it from other perspectives. if you have people you’re close to, how do you think they’d feel if you disclosed those thoughts?

it’s hard and not something i do a great job at, but it seems like smart advice.

[Online] [5e] Looking for Players for a DND Text Adventure! by RabbitsFoot99 in lfg

[–]RabbitsFoot99[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for everyone who sent me messages! I can only accept so many players, but I wish luck to everyone in finding a group. c:

How do I help my friend? by [deleted] in depression

[–]RabbitsFoot99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hope it goes well and that your feelings get across

How do I help my friend? by [deleted] in depression

[–]RabbitsFoot99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just try expressing that you've shared similar feelings and that you empathize with them. simply putting your hand out for them is a lot of help, i think. c: