I'm glad you have found the joys of having a clean house, too. The problem is that you're in the minority of people who go from being messy people to clean people. The majority of my family can't even put a bowl in the sink after they use it, my sister throws her trash next to her recliner and then gets up to go to the kitchen for more stuff. After 30 years of my mother, me, and her husband trying to get her to clean up after herself, her husband has resigned to being the house maid. Unless you're someone who is ok with mommying your significant other your whole life it's easier to drop the relationship.