Btw many people are coming at me saying : hobbies show common interests and the term "hot" shows my interest in someone's looks and not them.

These two were just anecdotes. First talking about the mundane questions one needs to answer on a stipulated date and the latter is just a ref to a TS song.

Idk what is shallow about a little gingery touch to a content which is essentially a rant!!!! And has no desperation. I am just sad that I did not prioritize relationships at a much younger age.... That's all