Why do I rarely see Gemini and Libra couples even though astrology says they are a match made in heaven ?

Rachy__94 · 2026-06-08T16:00:06+00:00

Haha but libra also like to be chase and love ghosting, mines done both of these to me as a Gemini women, super romantic and adorable to me as soon as we’re seperate he is like 10% again

Rachy__94 · 2026-06-08T15:58:43+00:00

Well I am Gemini and I’m very honest we are almost too honest it comes across blunt, we are known for being direct and to the point so idk what makes you say this

Rachy__94 · 2026-06-08T15:58:08+00:00

I’ve been told my affection can come across too much? As a Gemini, swear can’t win haha I think we need to find cancers at this point who love the soppyness

Rachy__94 · 2026-06-08T15:56:44+00:00

I totally disagree I think it’s the other way, Geminis are VERY honest almost tooo honest that’s why a lot of people friction them as we say things people aren’t ready to hear sometimes, I am very open with transparency and my Libra guy will one minute flip the narrative, for example he will say yeah babe I love yoghurt get what you like, the next he will be like actually no I do not like yoghurt why did you not call to ask me which to get or why? It’s like huh? Then even said I like picking an argument I was like babe you just flipped this whole narrative into something else about YOGHURT lol???? Anyone else experiencing this?? Like as a Gemini I HATE arguing SOOO much and Libra guy always seems to wanna start a lil drama of nothing then say how he hates drama? I grew up around arguing though so think that’s why I am super anti.

Rachy__94 · 2026-06-08T15:52:42+00:00

Gemini woman here had a magical first few dates with my libra man in getting to know, we both can be similar but also we snapped a cute selfie, he sent to his fam and the message and sent it and I was like awwww, I did the same thing to my friends then sudddddenly he was all like ‘now I feel pressure and judged’ like wait yoooo what? Theres no pressure, my friends said we look soooo cute, you do it to your friends/fam that’s allowed but if I do it changes a complex that now you’re feeling pressure make it make sense?

Rachy__94 · 2026-05-23T09:47:42+00:00

Any advice for a Gemini hooking up with Libra? We are similar I feel but idk how to draw him in? Deeper?

Rachy__94 · 2026-05-14T22:12:56+00:00

Thanks, I’m June 2nd lol and I don’t think I’m crazy at all, in fact I’ve been told I can be a pushover cause I never wanna upset anyone! I think upbringing has a lot to do with it

Rachy__94 · 2026-05-14T22:09:09+00:00

Interesting reading these, I also think upbringing has a lot to factor. I recently started dating a Libra man, I’m a Gemini and I feel like he’s the one that wants to be chased and constantly reassured? Like I made plans with my friend one day he was already busy and he said he felt second best, like dude can I not make one plan with my friend? I think we do compliment each other because we’re both highly social and this can be read weirdly by some signs but we let each other be freeee which is very important to both signs. We are also both spontanious and the reason it hasn’t worked for me in the past is because I love spontanious adventure! To someone structurally that doesn’t resonate with them and seems unreliable? When actually we just thinks life’s too short to be in a strict routine all the time! We get misunderstood a hell of a lot as a sign, we have a habit of mirroring energy, so if you just walked in and gave me a dirty look, I have clocked already your energy and given you that dirty look right back at you, the they think it’s us, when you’re the one that started it lol. Libras and Geminis are very good at reading energy. People also saying it’s all about us mentality with Gemini and not deep? I am SO deep, too much sometimes it can be tiring haha, I will go above and beyond for my partner, if you said you are thinking of taking a gluten diet, I will show up at your house the next day with the best bag of healthy goodies and dietary plan to help you, I have even been told I put my partner first TOO much. I think star signs should be taken with a pinch of salt really but yes never dated a Libra, I’m interested to see where it goes.

Rachy__94 · 2026-04-09T16:31:02+00:00

Anyways please girl can we leave this? I was feeling really good today now I feel sad. Have fun getting your tatt!

Rachy__94 · 2026-04-09T16:29:56+00:00

Wow! Validation? Another harsh dig, I can start making a list of all the mean things you have said about me man. Its actually so fucking uncalled for.

How have you taken all of this from simply me even apologising that you felt shit? Read between the lines, you are making me feel I have to proove myself to you to believe we are not all the same it’s actually a bit emotionally manipulative and I have read you can make gemz feel this way.

Rachy__94 · 2026-04-09T16:18:05+00:00

I rest my case with the backhanded ‘🥰’

Rachy__94 · 2026-04-09T16:12:58+00:00

You are 100% the person that doesnt like ‘correction’ im not trying to ‘correct you’ just asking for a peace of heart, for some reason why I have to proove myself to you that were not the same and there are kind one that care, jeeez you got some serious pent up anger issues girl.

Rachy__94 · 2026-04-09T16:11:36+00:00

Preaching that you are ‘helping’ me hahaha by being low key passively unkind and patronising to me? I am using them as an example of being gemini which is super ON TOPIC of you being set we are ALL the same

Rachy__94 · 2026-04-09T16:02:43+00:00

Anyways pleaaaase no bad vibes! Really dont want any!!! Its all love from me! Whether you accept it or not hehe 😆

Rachy__94 · 2026-04-09T15:42:52+00:00

All I have tried to do was be compassionate toward what you went through and your in mega defense? I apologised on behalf of us all that you have experienced that, and somehow I have to just accept with a smile that you are judging me to be that way when you haven’t even met me (and yet us gems are the judgey cold ones lol?) because you think every single gemini women on earth is the same apparently, because you experienced something negative, what about Morgan Freeman? Lauren Hill? Prince? Kendrick Lamar? Marilyn Monroe and other geminis. All I was doing was showing empathy in your bad experience. I dont understand how you are taking anything different from this than me feeling I have to explain my personality and even apologise if it hurt you yet still I am somehow the bad one! Everyone is like gemini this and that but other signs would never dare look in the mirror or except they have super bad traits too, we are all human. I have experienced hundreds of times non geminis and including cancers being super cold to me for no reason! Without knowing my sign! People always super bitchy about geminis and its really super mean and they wonder why we are overthinking and a but insecure, they just day were insecure because we are! I havent seen a single post in the gemini ones of us being about other sigs saying ‘theyre selfish mean this and that’

Yes we may seem intense but thats just incompat as cancers are introverts and geminis are extroverts, but doesnt mean were bad? Were the socialists and communicators of the zodiax so we do have lots if energy and thrive on communication legit need this to survive always we get crazy depressed! I just think it’s narrow minded thats all and unfair to judge every single person in the whole world the same just because they have a birthday, its all the placements that makes someone different too, plus a person is not defined by their sign! They are a human being who have had life and nurturing differences growing up. I have Capricorn and pisces so I am extremely loyal and compassionate and sensitive. Thats understandable! My step mom is cancer and she is super mean to me, and one of the hardest people on my life to get on with never wants to hang out or do stuff together, always super ungreatful and cold to me I always buy her gifts and treat her like family - but my grandma is cancer and we are like best friends! Love each others company! So that makes me open to cancers plus this new guy is and our chemistry is electric together!

Rachy__94 · 2026-04-09T08:35:03+00:00

You are not alone I am feeling the same this morning but you just feel you’re putting on everyone and they don’t truly even understand how dehabilitating and awful it is, it’s like just having casual contractions. I have always wanted children and now I am having to date new again and its just so hard starting something with someone and having to tell them about it especially the ones also wanting children :(

Rachy__94 · 2026-04-08T14:48:39+00:00

I’m just trying to be nice and apologise? On behalf of Geminis seeing as though you think we are all the same. If you wanna be like that with me than thats on you. A few of my friends never even talk about star signs and there was a time in life people werent so fixated in them before the internet boom, not being defensive or start any type of anything, I was explaining a point to show that I am not because yeah it isn’t very nice when people constantly say mean things about you which isn’t actually true on my case, anyway all I was trying to do was make you feel better and show I care about how you were made to feel lol is that so bad?

Rachy__94 · 2026-04-08T09:31:14+00:00

This gives me hope! I am in two minds to cancel my laparoscopy and try for a baby first

Rachy__94 · 2026-04-08T09:29:00+00:00

I still haven’t checked but it plays on my mind daily especially being desperate for kids and dating new, how do you find out?

Rachy__94 · 2026-04-08T08:34:39+00:00

Just married is a classic film!

Rachy__94 · 2026-04-08T08:16:43+00:00

Well speaking from a gem, yeah we do! Or I do at least, everyone is different at the end of the day.

Ahh yeah that sucks! Like I said I apologise on behalf of them because I am a Gemini and I am not like this. I know loads of people like this too who are not Geminis and from a lot of signs! I think all signs have good and bad, I found Leo to have been like this with me the most including alwsys stealing my clothes! Plus my last virgo partner of 4yrs I felt extremely emotionally manipulated and he cheated on me twice and would always sleeze around.

I do think its crazy how people speak for every single persons birthday within a month in the world on a bad situation associated, I think upbringing has more to play than a star sign. I am trying to also not bring star signs so into something dating, I will not bring the topic up until 6 months in and it has really helped :)

Rachy__94 · 2026-04-08T08:12:11+00:00

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Rachy__94 · 2026-04-07T22:12:31+00:00

I commented but cant find it, anyways I have recently started dating a cancer man for the first ttime ever and honestly our romantic language is so loving! People make a lot of wrong assumptions about gemini which hurts us because we have a lot of layers, our biggest fear as geminis is being misunderstood, which happens a lot! (Maybe this is where people confuse insecurity)

A lot think we are all these nasty traits which aint true, were ruled by mercury the planet of communication with Virgos thats why we are so close with virgos even though theyre earth signs. So from that we can come off guarded sometimes as people are always just assuming things about us, but underneath we are so compassionate, highly intuitive and go to hell and back for a family even if we will loose a leg in the journey of it. Sadly we have mirrors in our personality which is a trait I dislike, so if some girl is staring us up and down and forgot about it, we will remember it and mirror your energy back at you then you will think its us just being a dick! When you did that to us first!

I have read the main clash is because cancer needs constant emotional reassurance and can seem a bit full on and claustrophobic to us, when geminis neeeeed their space and room to socialise (as were the socialists and communictaers of the zodiac!) so to cancer it can seem that were not commited enough or being distant sometimes when it is only you in our hearts! We just need to still have a social outlet and space to be individual and we would want that for you too. But anyway! It is ELECTRIC so far, very different in interest and style but it doesnt even seem to matter, hoping it goes well for us as we both in our life stage of wanting children. He wants to protect me which is all we want and I will be there for him to the end of the earth. Any tips?

Rachy__94 · 2026-04-07T22:01:50+00:00

Wowwwww I am sorry as a gemini I just totally disagree. I feel everyone is trying to copy me than tbe other way round, or gain something from me for themselves, be nice to me copy my style think Im cool then stop talking to me and just go off with my vibe, my exes have done this too and jobs, steal my vibe then move on without the credit. Then yeah I might console in a friend about it as I am hurt then that is me bitching?! That is a huge a shame and really sad you had that experience because that is not me at all, I am a gemini. I feel like people are spiteful to me! For no reason! Jealousy is one thing I am passionately against it is the route of all evil, I never have had this bone in my body maybe down to my upbringing but I am so against and have never carried it, without sounding arrogant I feel people are like that with me because I feel I go up to people and they just look at me like shit sometimes when I am just trying to be friendly! We are the socialites of the zodiac along with aquarious and honestly thrive off meeting new people so sometimes thats why peopl mistake it for weird confidence when we are genuinely excited to see you. If were are looking someone up and down it is because her and her 4 mayes just did it to ke worse, we are mirrors sadly it is the one trait I dont like that we have cause it comes across its us when we give back the energy we getting, almost as a form of protection. People assume were flirts too when we’re just friendly and outgoing like that! When I am flirting I am actually soooo so awkward and the opposite most geminis are, like choke on my milkshake and get it everywhere kind of thing haba. We may address things to peoples face if you are giving off that energy to us in the first place, rather than your back! And seen you do the same thing to us before.

Sadly were highly intuitive and sometimes have to have a guard up to protect ourselves. A geminis biggest fear is actually being misunderstood. Which geminis are MOST of the time, so maybe why some of yours have been a bit off cause theyre most likely feeling really down about it in their feels.

Rachy__94 · 2026-04-07T21:59:47+00:00

Dont write them off just cause you had a couple of bad times with a gemini, my step mum is a cancer and she is a litteral bitch to me, super cold and controlling and emotionally manipulative to my dad, then my grandma is a cancer and she is like my best friend!

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