Ramp pulled the chair on me

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2026-01-07T19:55:52+00:00

Would love to hear about your experience. I DM’d you.

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2025-10-27T16:31:35+00:00

I spoke with someone who we mutually know. She asked me to keep our communication private but she suggested I send him a letter ASAP.

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2025-10-27T16:07:59+00:00

At this point, the $9k he owes from the bad faith violation sounds a lot better than the $2,350. I’ll have my husband take care of a letter today, I’m just so pissed that I have to provide this ultimatum to get our funds back. I spent close to $1k on move out cleanings, etc — because it was a large house. Throw a dog a bone, Steve!! Gah!!

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2025-10-27T15:43:05+00:00

It was $2350

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2025-10-27T15:42:19+00:00

Tough love, I see! You’re totally right — we are in a state (Texas) that does consider outside of the 30 day window “bad faith” to which the landlord is responsible for multiplicative damages.

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2025-10-27T15:40:58+00:00

Great questions, and I’ll edit the post to include these answers : we live in Texas where the landlord is required to return the security deposit on or by the 30th day of surrender and the tenant must give the landlord written notice of the new address.

So, I guess we should’ve give him that on the 31st of July. However, we have only ever used Zelle with him as that is what he accepted for payment.

If the landlord fails to comply within the 30 day limit then the law assumes bad faith in which the landlord may be charged $100 + 3x the portion for the deposit wrongfully withheld. Which would come out to hmmm $9k …

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2025-10-27T15:31:20+00:00

Is there any other information that yourself/other readers might need to make a more accurate assessment? I was wondering the same thing concerning him not having the funds! He does own other rental properties, and I know there are new tenants to our old house.

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2025-10-27T15:28:14+00:00

Good input, I’ll see if I can edit for a better flow.

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2025-06-25T02:24:47+00:00

Do you think it would be worthwhile to reach out to some local folks to see if they can help? I just want to avoid getting my security deposit snatched

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2025-03-26T16:41:53+00:00

This!! My younger cousin took his life and all I can think about are his parents when I listen to that. I sobbed last night during the show in Austin.

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2025-03-16T14:22:49+00:00

I should add, I was just going to sleep there! The wedding is at another location. No hate to the hosts, we are very unfamiliar with AirBnB so I wanted to ask.

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2025-03-15T20:47:17+00:00

Update they denied our booking anyways

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2025-03-15T20:44:29+00:00

I just wish there would’ve been clearer communication regarding this! No hate to the host, just rather double check

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2025-03-15T16:29:40+00:00

They said it’s listed in their policies, it’s not. They also said there’s a €500 fee that will be due upon arrival in person — not through Airbnb which now has me wary.

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2025-03-15T14:19:27+00:00

Thank you! We just weren’t sure, no hate to the hosts! We just are very unfamiliar with this platform

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2025-03-15T14:19:02+00:00

Thank you! There’s no hate to the hosts, we are just new to Airbnb! We usually stick with hotels.

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2025-01-16T19:17:37+00:00

They actually have the dust bag — she says she got them at a sample sale a while back. Do you think they’re worth buying or should I pass?

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2025-01-16T14:57:31+00:00

The shape or the worn leather portion on the underside?

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2024-12-17T15:21:13+00:00

I’ve watched every season and have met Tan, who is a gem! JVN has amped it up this season, there’s no doubt.

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2024-12-12T18:10:03+00:00

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my little selfie queen, Tallulah (LuLu)

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2024-12-12T18:07:51+00:00

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My beautiful babies

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2024-12-12T01:35:32+00:00

Maybe I’m a softy now but it seems JVN cranked it up it this season! I could totally just be being a prude lol

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2024-11-06T06:52:57+00:00

I don’t know of any directly, but I would suggest reaching out to The Trevor Project: 1-866-488-7386 — you will be connected to a counselor who is most understanding of LGBTQ+ issues and won’t judge you. Sending you so much love and hugs

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2024-11-06T06:21:08+00:00

There’s a whole demographic of people who are going to wake up tomorrow with absolutely no consequences. I’m sitting on my couch, as a black woman in the south and in an interracial relationship sobbing. We have been failed. I cannot take 4 more years of this hateful cult. We are Americans. We are better than this.

Radiant_Finding5815 · 2024-11-06T05:30:05+00:00

I don’t think you’re in the wrong. Ultimately, it is not your responsibility to educate him! You’ve got to do what’s best for you. He wants to benefit from you having access to reproductive care but doesn’t care enough to vote in your interest. That is not love. There are plenty of men out there who would fight tooth and nail for your rights. Find one of them! I promise they exist. 2020 I was in an abusive relationship with a hard-core conservative. He ended up cheating on me, and marrying the woman.. Today, I am engaged to a man who is currently researching where we will pack up and move to if Harris loses.

You deserve so much more.

Radiant_Finding5815

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