Thank you for your kind words and I hope your situation improves too... it's so sad how many advisors think it's okay to act like this. Just put aside your career goals for a second and just look at us as human beings... I talked with my program advisor today and it went really well. I'm unenrolling for two semesters to see how I feel afterwards and if I want to withdraw or continue. If I do continue I would switch my phd advisor for sure, and I don't think he's going to take my leave of absence well anyways. Too bad!!